How can a single mother deal with a deadbeat daddy that does nothing for his child?

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How can a single mother deal with a deadbeat father that does nothing for his child. He has 3 other kids that he barely does for…He just had another child that he does everything for? This is so frustrating and im so disgusted with him…..Everytime I see him I want to erase him from this earth…What can I do to help myself?

Answers and Views:

Answer by dragon394
kick his damn arse out

use condoms next time

Answer by Zorro
so he already had 3 kids that he did not take care of and you had a baby with him. Genuis Idea.

Answer by Cocoa D
Do exactly that erase his ass. He’s not doing a damn thing you said change your number and act as if he don’t exist. See then if he tries to ask around about your were abouts.

Answer by Tacos!
dont do it you have a kid, thats why never marry concieted ppl they think they are too good to do any of the parent work. I think you need to talk to him deeply because if he is the father of your kid he needs to get things straight and realize he has a responsibility as a father. I can imagine your tired by doing all the house work and taking care of the kid.

you need some R&R while he takes care of your kid for once. I will pray for u

Answer by Inked Mama ♥ Beautiful Disaster
Sue him for child support and then forget about him. You can’t force someone to be a good parent. Sad to say your child will be better off without him by the sounds of it.

Answer by lizzylonglegs
Make sure you never have another child to him, you must have been dreaming when you conceived this one, as the evidence was there already.

Time to be a hard-nosed career woman. Get into education, use all the resources you have to get a well paid reliable job, and never ever talk to that man again.

Answer by Variable 46
First of all…WISE UP!! He has three other kids he doesn’t do anything for and another that he does…those are terrible odds. What in the world made you think he’d be anything different with your kid? Why in the world would you have a child with him? This guy WAS a deadbeat, IS a deadbeat and always WILL BE a deadbeat. You made a terrible mistake having a child by him, because believe it or not, there are REAL MEN out there who take things like love and devotion and parenthood and responsibility real serious, and would make excellent partners and fathers if you decide to have any more kids.

Which brings me to Second of all…don’t have any more kids until you have wised up, and find someone willing to bring the necessary commitment to the table. If you don’t, you’re not only doing yourself a disservice, you’re also selfishly doing your child and society at large a disservice.

Which brings me to Third of all…don’t bother wasting time trying to get anything out of this guy. He will never come through for you. Learn the lesson, move on.

Answer by sunny_beach_7
Collect child support, and live your own life.

Answer by Sareena
You help yourself by stop tripping on him and worry about raising your children.You cannot change people.They have to change themselves.