FriendSHIP??

psychologistabc: FriendSHIP??
If someone says theyre your best friend then you fins out she’s said stuff behind your back what do you do.?

Answers and Views:

Answer by mazza
Tell her friendship over.

Answer by marrying_buddha
confront her

Answer by malley
Confront her about what you heard…

Answer by jsjr12469
TALK to her a try to understand why she said what she said!!!!

Answer by missyann1
confront her she may not have said it at all

Answer by white_pride_lovenmywife
I would probley never speak to them again knowing me i would attack them and send them to the hospital, but my advice to you is to not do that, i would say approach them and talk to them about it maybe they did do it maybe they did not do it. you should ask no matter what

Answer by [email protected]
ignore if you can some time people become friend graduialy

Answer by thymeandspice
Drop her in your ratings, she’s not your best friend.

If she’s just a gossip, maybe she’s still a friend, if it was hurtfull or you told her it was a secret she is no friend of yours.

Answer by dreamcatcher8993
Definately ask her about it, consider the source who told you she said it. Then decide which person you believe. And which you want to be friends with cause one of them is lying. (If she says she didn’t say it which she probably will) If she admits it….move on. Get her out of your life.

Answer by AJ
Confront your friend about the issue in a civilized way. If this friend is any friend at all, you should be able to talk about issues that come up. I think we all talk about people behind their backs, we just realize it more when the talking is about ourselves. If the friendship is that strong, you’ll work things out.

Answer by peach_jfox
Make sure it is true with confrontation. Then, make your final decision.

Answer by bubble_puppy2005
ditch her 4 real who needs a freind like dat

Answer by epsaints
Talk to them and find why they said what they said and if they did say Tell them How you fell then decided if you still want to be friends

Answer by Samantha
Well if she said that she’s you’re best friend and she’s saying some stuff behind you’re back, then you should talk to her about that, ask her, and confront her. And when you ask her and she lied that she didn’t say that, then you go get the person who told you that you’re best friend are saying some stuff and bring that person to the front of your best-friend and ask each of every one. then you will find out who’s telling the true. then when you find out that you’re best friend are real saying some stuff and lying to you then you’re friendship have to be over.

Answer by starrchild42
First of all, can you trust the person who told you your best friend was talking about you behind your back? It may be that the person telling you this is just trying to cause conflict between you and your best friend.

If this person truly is your best friend (and this goes both ways) then you should be able to go to him/her and talk about it. Just say something along the lines of….You know I told you about _______, and I thought we had an understanding that ______ was just between you and I. I heard that you have been going behind my back and talking about me with other people. How would you feel if I started going behind your back and telling people about your _____.

Conflict is a tough situation. It can ruin friendships. And that causes fear. But if the friendship is important enough to you, you will face your fear and confront your friend.

It may be that you didn’t tell your best friend that ______ was something between the two of you and not to go blabbing about it. In that case, in the future, when you want to share something but don’t want the person blabbing to everyone, make sure to tell them not to talk out of school.

Answer by my_hollium
well, i experience this before… hunny, believe me.. in this world there’s no such thing as best friend… even if u were to have one or two.. it wont last long as human are like this where they like mixing with people whom they think they can hang out with… in other words, they like choosing… u can either go face-to-face with her and ask her why she’s doing this to u or u just do as if nothing had happen… cz forgive is the best thing 2 b done than looking or making this worse right? anyway, best of luck then…

Answer by omarion94923578
talk to her but dont make an scene .because u dont know where that person heard who may have told u .so trust ur heart

Answer by pragya_ishere
tell her everything may be you missunderstand her