Friendship.?

D.C: Friendship.?
Help me! have a friend who constantly asks me to borrow expensive things. I don’t mind sharing but he never returns them. When I asks for the stuff back, he refuses to give them to me. What should I do? Also, whenever we go out to eat or watch movies, he keeps asking me to pay for him because he “forgot” his money. But he never pays me back. I am a student and I have no money. I feel like he’s taking me for granted and abusing our friendship. How can I resolve this problem without destroying our friendship?

Answers and Views:

Answer by morgan
Let him know how you feel! It sounds like he is taking you for granted! Quit letting him borrow stuff, and don’t go anywhere with him unless he’s paying for himself!

Answer by Smiles6
Don’t let him borrow anything else. Let him pay for himself when you guys go out. People like that just take you for granted. I was like that with some of my co-workers now they don’t speak to me at all. The type of people are not friends at all.

Answer by Katrina R
Okay You Know you dont want to hurt his feelings… So tell him how you feel… If answers back like… Oh you dont care then! Or you’re not a good friend! Tell him look it’s either we’re friends or not.. And If you don’t start respecting ourselves as friend your not a true friend…
And if he disagrees and blah blah blah accept that your friendship is over… It might hurt your feelings to do it… But if you dont do anything you can’t conquer anything else in your life. Especially if you cant see to do anything about it.
I know this becuase the exact thing ahppened to me.
Please take this in consideration…