how do you “finger” yourself?

Question by : how do you “finger” yourself?
my boyfriends says he likes it when a girl fingers there self. the only problem is I’ve never fingered myself, I’m a virgin, when ever i get horney or sexually aroused i just rub the out side a little. IT REALLY HURTS WHEN EVER I STICK MY FINGER UP THERE. but when my boyfriends fingers me it feels real real good. am i doing something wrong? IS it the right hole?!?!
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Answer by mackenzie
When you get to bed move your hand down between your legs and slowly move your fingers up and down against your pussy,keep moving your fingers around untill it starts to feel nice,once it starts to feel nice,if you have any clothes on move your hand up or down inside your clothes and move your fingers back to where you were touching yourself before,as it starts to feel nicer you will feel your pussy getting wetter,when that happens move one of your fingers slowly up into the wet area,as you move your finger into the wet area you will feel a small hole that you pee through,slowly move your finger up over this small hole (do NOT try and put your finger into this hole)and you will feel like a small lump covered by loose skin,this is your clitorus,(clit)rub your finger over and around this untill it makes you feel real nice,if you do it properly it will make your pussy and finger feel real wet,you can then move your wet finger up inside your wet pussy,it’s then up to you how far you want to move your finger up inside yourself,or how you move your finger around inside yourself to make it feel nice,you are now fingering yourself,so enjoy it.