Why Would A Man Call Having Sex, “Making Love”?

Tina Bee [Love Is A Joke]: Why Would A Man Call Having Sex, “Making Love”?
I’m talking to my ex-boyfriend again and whenever I ask him if we can have sex he gets very angry. He says he considers what we’re doing ‘making love’ since he’s still in love with me. He says sex is something totally different.

Is that true and what is his problem?

Answers and Views:

Answer by nirvana
coz you are gonna make love as in a baby

Answer by Mike
In the stone ages all men named their kids love…and this was the production of such a product…BOW CHICA BOW WOW!

Answer by Niko
A lot of people refer to “making love” when they feel more emotionally attatched. “Sex” is usually the term when you’re just in it for the pleasure.

Answer by Rayne A
he says making love because he has aids

Answer by annalyzedgourds
They are two entirely different things. Animals have sex. People who aren’t in love and in a loving relationship have sex. People who love each other in a committed loving relationship make love. A very big difference. You were having sex and so was he. But does it matter what he calls it? Unless you are hung up on being “right” then let it go in one ear and out the other. We all have the right to be wrong…even exs.

Answer by bomb-erman
He considers “sex” to be a general term for any random sexual act with anyone, whereas he considers what you two do together to be something special, thus “Making love”.

You should be flattered really

Answer by Angelicia
does it even matters?

^ that what you should ask him :X

Answer by x_xAmy4evAzx_x
Well i see at as because he is an ex boyfriend don’t give him sex just because he wants it if he really loves you , you should get back together as for the difference between sex and making love sex is just like something people do and enjoy and making love is like not like you just do it for the sake of enjoying it but your making each other happy and showing how much you love each other i see his point but make sure he isn’t just saying that to make it sound like he really loves you so you should have sex with him i say get in a relationship.
Hope i helped x 🙂 Good Luck

Answer by MadChuckD
People can refer to sex as “making love” to make it more emotional, rather than only carnal. His problem? I don’t know. You might have one. Calling an ex just for sex? I smell a nympho.

Answer by Morticae
He doesn’t have a problem.

Many people choose to make a distinction of their sexual activities. Sex that is hasty and full of lust but no romance is often considered just “sex.” A couple who are in love and have a lot of passion, a deeper spiritual connection to each other may refer to it as “making love.” Some might view the term as old and perhaps a bit tacky.

To each their own.

Answer by Ollie
I agree with him. SEX is more used in a whore house or prostitution. Making Love is more intimacy, passionate between two lovers ONLY. He respects you a lot.

Answer by Jack
I agree with him. If you’re in a committed relationship/you love the person, then it is making love. Sex is with someone you don’t really care for.

He is a man of great respect.

Answer by Erik MFZB
Like others have said, sex is of lust and for pleasure. Making love is between two people who love each other.

Answer by Acid Bleed
Wait why are you still having sex with your ex-boyfriend?

Answer by hope2help
Sex is at its best as an expression of love between two people who are deeply committed to each other; using it only for pleasure can lead to disappointment, and some people would say it’s morally wrong. That is probably the reason for your ex-boyfriend’s attitude; do discuss the question with him – good communication is essential for good sex.