Do men find smaller breast attractive? Iam very small 32 b…i have had 2 kids and?

Marcella: Do men find smaller breast attractive? Iam very small 32 b…i have had 2 kids and?
thankfully they dont show it, but they are small…the thing is my husband way before me worked in a strip club and dated strippers (most of whom had large fake breast) I found a whack of old photos a year ago and made him trash them since we were married after all…but finding those hurt my feelings even though those women are old hags now (im 29 and he is 42, they were the same age as him) i am convinced my breast dont turn him on, and now i rarely ever let him touch them or see them, mostly due to fight we have had in the past where he says things like :at least they had breast” when i tell him those women were gross, and him making them out to be better than they were (2 were drunks and one was a coke head) iam nothing like that, im more suburban mom/homemaker but it still hurt my feelings and even though he has said sorry i am not over, he has said things like that more than once…more than 10 times over our 4 years…no other guy i dated ever said anything bad about them, but this guy has…
umm no actually my breast are not deflated,i never breast fed,LOL….they look pretty good, dont sag, full just small 🙁
he swears he is an ass man, but when i saw all his old ex pics, NONE of those women had an ass, they had the typical white girl flat ass (im white), so i find it hard to beleive him but i do have a great ass.
i never said all women over 40 were hags, just them,i seen them now and they are not hot at all, they look like walking cigarettes.

Answers and Views:

Answer by VampireSuck
to be honest I hate small breast……!!!!

Answer by Ryde_On
B is pretty small and they are probably deflated after 2 pregnancies

Answer by Steve-O in AZ
I was married to a woman with 38D. After the marriage, dated around for a year – some big breasts, some small. You know what? If that is all a man is concerned about, he is really missing out on some interesting women in life.

Answer by Janet W
You married a man that used to work in a strip club? What do you expect from someone like that. Of course he is used to objectifying women, women in his world are sexual objects without feelings or purpose other than to please him. If you had married a man with substance then it wouldn’t matter what your body looks like. Men like boobs. I don’t think I’ve ever met one that didn’t but that shouldn’t define you or your relationship.

Answer by Poppy
Since when is a b cup small? Trust me on this one. I’ve been married to an A cup and an F cup with a couple others in between. I’ll take those little ones any day. Those big ones will be pointing at the floor soon. By the way, when did 42 y/o women become old hags? Hell that’s when they’re becoming free to do what they want with whom they want.

Answer by Lovebug
If your husband loves you, he will love your body too. If it worked first day and much hasn’t changed, it probably still works for him

Answer by Common sense isn’t anymore..
A) those women aren’t “gross” purely because you are insecure. Perhaps if you hadn’t attacked that, he wouldn’t have attacjed you back. Learn to have grown up responses.
B) your insecurity is what he doesn’t find attractive, not your breasts.

Answer by jdrumming
Your husband insulted your body???????

I find that incredible. The fact is, if you love someone, they are beautiful in your eyes and you never ever say anything to intentionally make them feel badly about their body. He sounds like a dick.

Answer by Robin
Honey I am smaller than you! 34A.
I have never had a complaint!
There are many men that like small ones!

Plus they don’t sag like the big ones!

Heck I would love to be a “B”.

Be happy and have self confidence!

Answer by
I am very mad just reading this!
I am small too 34B, I love my breast! I enjoy them as much as my partner! I have never had anyone tell me that so I don’t know how that feels. But in your case I think that you are the one that is making things worse. To start off, in a healthy relationship where one loves the other their appearance should not matter. You said it, these women had FAKE breasts, you are real and should be proud of your body. If this man is bringing up other women’s breast into your fights then you two may not be for each other. I was insecure as well when I split with my baby’s father, but my partner now I have made comments about getting implants and he says that they are perfect. Which they are! Mine are proportionate with my body and I like the way they feel with my body. I enjoy them as much as he does and you should do the same. Feel secure about your own body and your breast. Learn how to appreciate them and love them. This guys is whack to think that you need big fake breast to get turned on. I hope this helped you a bit and just love your body! 🙂

Answer by Victor
I prefer them firm, no matter how big.

Big & flabby = bad
Small & flabby = bad
Big & hard = unusual, but good if you can find ’em
Small & hard = great!

BTW, I’m 42 and wife is 49. A 29 year old body sounds good to me right about now.

Answer by Kevin
hmmmmm

Answer by SweetTea
Well judging from his past, what do you expect from him? B is not that small, I would say it is average for a woman who is a healthy weight. But to a guy who likes strippers and huge fake tatas, yes it would be considered small.

Answer by lovelymena
small breast are sexy especially if u love them…wear very femenine lingerie and buy lil jeweled nipple clips or the bondage necklace with the chains and nipple clips attached…these will heighten ur sensitivity and u will find ur breast more attractive when u dress up…ur a grown woman…`take nude pics and pose sexy in the mirror..invest a lil time in enjoying ur body and ur husband will notice ur confidence and it will be a turn on…if u do this and he’s still talkin ish like a 4th grader about ur small breast take ur sexy over 2 a new man who will satisfy u..there’s plenty out there u just have to stop giving ur energy to the one who doesn”t reciprocate..xo! good luck babes!

Answer by Jonny
I don’t see how B cups are small, my gf is 36b and to me they perfect. And if he loves you that shouldn’t be bothered about that.

Answer by Paul
I’m, as you called it, an *** man. But I like to see a nice set once in awhile. But if you forced me to decide I’m strictly an *** man.

Sorry your husband is such an ***. I can think of all sorts of retorts but they wouldn’t help resolve the problem.

True story: Husband putting down wife all the time. So happened she had appointment with her gynecologist and psychologist on the same day. The first knew of her lack of confidence and complimented her saying she had the breasts of a 20 yr old. Psychologist concurred and suggested she go home, strip and look at herself in the mirror. She did. Husband walked in on her. Asked what she was doing. She said – I’ll have you know my gyn told me I had the breasts of a 20 yr old. He said – Did he say anything about your 40 yr old ***? She replied – No your name didn’t come up all day. LOL

Good luck with your 42 yr old ***

Answer by AnswerDude
I LOVE my wife’s 34 A cup breast! They are so sensitive and one of her best erogenous zones too. I can bring her to orgasm just by paying attention to her breast, I wouldn’t change them for anything! ! ! !