When girls “fall in love” do their brains and common sense just completely shut down? Love should be 2 way.

chaskfrazier: When girls “fall in love” do their brains and common sense just completely shut down? Love should be 2 way.
How can you *fall in love* and stay in love with someone who abuses and mistreats you? That’s like saying it’s okay to abuse you.

Answers and Views:

Answer by timssterling
You mean some women have brains and common sense? Interesting!

Answer by Pe-nan-ce
I think their common sense really does shut down lol

Answer by floozy_niki
There’s scientific evidence that shows that when females are in love, their IQ becomes lower. It’s the other way round for males though.

Answer by Jack r
that is not love

Answer by jj.mcintosh
That is where the saying ‘love is blind’ comes from. If it is that bad, he has probably made her feel that it is right and she deserves it. She will grow tired of it after a while and open her eyes to how things really are. All you can do is keep trying to help her see how things really are.

Answer by jjjjjjjjj
This is what love is, read it and it should answer your question:

“Love” isn’t a single emotion, it’s a meshing of two or more emotions of varying degrees, put together in different combinations by each individual, which change from moment to moment throughout their lifetimes. This definition covers all types of love, not just “perfect” or “true” love.

Each person decides throughout their lifetime at any moment what love is to them whether it is on a conscious level or not; what combination of emotions they should be feeling, how strongly they need to be feeling each of them and how important each of them is. This is why people fall in love with strangers or those they barely know, because those types of people are basically blank slates whom we can convince ourselves meet our criteria. It’s also why we become brokenhearted later (which is almost inevitable) when we get to know them through a closer relationship and discover that they didn’t meet our criteria after all, if that ends up being the case.

As a person ages and experiences different things, then their views also change, sometimes slightly and sometimes drastically. So what they attribute as love changes, too. This is why people fall out of love with others, or why their love will develop or grow stronger.

Since we each decide which combination of emotions at any time come together to be love, then it is us that chooses love and not the other way around. You aren’t made to fall in love with a certain person, you’ve chosen to, whether it’s a conscious choice or not. We are also each responsible for any “destructive” love we may feel if we include emotions such as jealousy and anger into the combination.

There are all kinds of love and infatuation is one of them. It’s more commonly known as “puppy love”. People tend to discriminate against it and belittle it because it doesn’t fall into the category of what they consider to be “true love” or “perfect love”, but it is love nonetheless. The thing about the love known as infatuation is that it tends to be an obsessive and very passionate kind of love, so the one possessing it views the person they are infatuated with through very narrow blinders and the fire of the love burns bright and fast, and in turn dies just as quickly and thoroughly.

Answer by jeenie
I’m a girl and if some man ever put his hands on me he better make it worth it because I will fight him back. So I think I do have common sense and am in love (getting married in three months). I would NEVER stay with a man who hit me.

Answer by TamiAmi
It’s possible and hopefully common sense will kick in because no matter how much you love someone you can’t allow them to abuse you.

It will hurt like hell but if you are being mistreated you have to leave because the abuse will only continue. Love does not abuse no matter what the other person says (while crying or not). L-E-A-V-E you don’t have a choice. The pain will ease as time goes on but you must cut this person completely out of your life.

I hope that you have family support, you will need it!

More than anything pray & ask God for protection & peace.

Leave when he/or she is not there. Don’t tell them you are leaving! Just get out!

John 3:16 and 1 Corinthians 13 are the best definitions of love that you will find anywhere. (Holy Bible)

GOD BLESS YOU!

For all non-believers “who cares?”

Answer by roeroe417
You cant ! your playing your self short. Know one should be mistreated.If its not going to work its not going to work. It takes to two make it work.