What’s your opinion on 14 and younger kids falling in “love”?

Kayla Dacarus: What’s your opinion on 14 and younger kids falling in “love”?
Do you think kids 14 and younger really can fall in love or is it more like lust and hormones?

Answers and Views:

Answer by LisaLu
lust and hormones.. actually lust and hormones until you are at least 16 and/or have some sort of major responsibility.

Answer by Kenzie
i have been with my fiance since i was just shy of turning 14 and i am almost 21 so it is possible just not likely it very very rare

Answer by ♥♫Nayeli Alexa Faith♫♥
Love is something most people don’t understand until they are much older than that. However there are a few times when they might be in love.

Answer by summer
maybe if they grow up knowing someone their whole lives they can fall in some sort of love. Love is found in many different ways, but mature love as we know it comes with age and at the age 14 and younger I dont think they can fully fall in LOVE, since love also takes time. And at 14 you have not had enough experience with life.

Answer by Rissasaurous Rex
I’m 14. I don’t know if it’s love. But I dated this dude for like 2 months (we talked a while before that) and then we “took a break”. I still had strong feelings for him and he still had strong feelings for me. I still have those feelings for him. I’m pretty sure he has the same for me. But we just won’t date again and I don’t know why.

Answer by dolly
I am in my early 20s and to say that 14 year olds cannot fall in love would be condescending. So yes, I believe that people can fall in love regardless of their age and teenage is about more than just hormones because there are many firsts like first kiss, first bf/gf, first date, etc. So it is even more exciting and unfortunately, more heartbreaking as well.

Answer by ᴴᴱᴬᵀᴴᴱᴿ♥
Whatever. It’s not really hurting anybody. Even adults can’t get it right half the time.

Answer by candyflossgirl35
Well yes the hormones take you over but you can’t really tell. Love as i believe as no barriers. Especially age barriers. You can fall in love when you are 10 and you can fall in love when you are 70. It doesn’t really matter =)

Answer by XxXxKittyxXxX
I think 14 year olds can fall in love.
In certain countries in this earth, where media is not ruling teenager’s brains.
They have the most pure love.
And their 13 and 14.
That is amazing.
Yes, it’s hard to find ‘Love’ in these places. Where we have pressures and ect.
But it is possible.

So go ahead.
Your only young once 😉

Answer by sanjeev
Dude, love and feelings for someone comes from heart not with age.
Age only can grow brain and hormones but the heart remains same forever in my view………

Answer by Musiclover10
I’m 14, and I honestly think that kids at 10,11,12 are not “in love”. I think kids are caught up in the lust of the “relationship”(kissing, hugging, cuddling) and I think that they really like that. Everyone has the human want to be loved and by being kissed and hugged, they feel that the need has been satisfied by lust not “LOVE”. I think the same for 13,14 year olds but these kids seemed to matured a bit more and you never know, kids at fourteen could actually be in love. My grandparents met at 13. Starting going out when they were 15. and there still together today 🙂 Interesting Question by the way.

Answer by Wow Advice
The definition of love is to have a deep affection for another person. I don’t say that kids are too young to fall in love because they are not. Kids are human, just like everyone else so they have emotions and feelings too. The reason why adults say “Love, You are too young to love” is because they don’t want you to get hurt but love is apart of life. Love teaches you how to cope with others, stay away from some, and gives you mistakes you learn from. Young love doesn’t always last though, and that’s the downer of it all. But even when older people fall in love, our relationships still don’t last. Many married couples are getting divorced. So my opinion is that love is love and its an emotion everyone feels.

Answer by THE RANDOM WEIRDO!
Anything is possible it’s not impossible for a 14 yr. old to find the right person & fall in love it’s just rare so, most of the time in most cases it does seem to be lust but, I don’t think it’s so much as age as it is maturity & not so much own personal experience on earth but, being aware of other people’s personal experiences to so not only learning from your own mistakes but other people as well because you can’t make all the mistakes on your own I believe you can mature faster this way I also believe that the soul & physical self might have different ages….. Hard to explain probably a little fuzzy I don’t know if you understand what I’m trying to say but I hope you do.

Answer by Caris Allen
Not saying it isn’t possible, but I think it is mostly lust and hormones for most of the teenage years, and I am 14 saying this. I think it is likely to love someone you met when you were 14 or younger later on, but you most likely didn’t love them at that point. 🙂

Answer by Vicky Gretchen
They can fall in love, but the way that society is, 14 year olds are still expected to be “children”. Children can’t fall in love. But 14 year olds can. But 14 year olds are children.

So basically, ehhhhhhhh.