LazerFirer: What to do about my brother and his boxers?
I am a 17 year old girl living at home with my dad and 16 year old brother. The problem is that my brother is always walking around the house in his boxers. He doesn’t when we have company over, but it makes me feel uncomfortable. It’s not that I have some issue with male privates, and I’ve seen him naked before (not for a few years though) but because it’s my brother I feel uncomfortable. I’ve tried talking to my dad and he doesn’t care, and neither does my brother. Is there anything I can do?
UPDATE: I’ve really tried talking to him, it isn’t gonna work. I could probably dispose of his boxers, what do you think?
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Answer by fosterRoyal
Yes, let your brother know that you are uncomfortable with him walking around in his boxers, because your both young adults now and its very disrespectful to do that. Your dad should care, but that’s another story.
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boys will be boys. there’s nothing you can really do about it, your fatherdoesn’tt care because he wants to do it to, and he would if not for you lol. but your brotherdoesn’tt really care about your feeling, so unless you come up with some situation that will make him rethink his clothing choices, your stuck with it. randomly have friends over? make it colder in the house? make fun of his small package? make him uncomfortable? pants him? you could use classical conditioning as well. whenever he wears his boxers around just be a real bitch to him, and be nice when he wears clothing, subconsciously he will begin to associate walking around with boxers with the wrath of the wicked bitch sister. and he will slowly show a change in his behavior.Answer by Darkest Star
I am afraid that I think that the problem may lie with you rather than your brother. Perhaps you should go and speak to a counsellor and discuss your issues rather than prevent your brother from walking around his own home in his shorts. If you want to reach a compromise ask your brother to wear sweat pants or proper shorts rather than boxers. If you are still not comfortable with this then I am not sure that there is anything to suggest.Answer by og
Just try telling your dad again that you are a teenage girl and it makes you embarrassed to see your brother half naked. If he does nothing about it you just have to learn to live with it. to be honest, although it must be a bit uncomfortable it may end up making you ore comfortable about nakedness which will help your confidence in later relationships. But i do have sympathy for you and hope that your dad does something about this,try to talk to him as maturely as possible about it.Answer by b1tommyl
There is nothing you can do. Geeez get over a little skin. why are you so uptight. YOU have the problem not him.
It’s his body. leave him alone.
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Its not a big deal.Some people want to wear less clothes in home.You should told me to wear some long briefs.
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