What should I do about a extermley abusive man in my life?

: What should I do about a extermley abusive man in my life?
So heres what happended. I was dating this guy for about a lil while, but we’ve know eachother forever. Once we started dating he bought me a phone and he was very nice to begin with. Then me and him broke up, He just so happened to have a tracker on my phone so he knew where i was at all times. While we were broken up I ended up hanging out with one of my guy friends. He knew that by seeing where i was on my tracker. ( i was still using the phone he bought me when we broke up ). So the day after i hung out with my guy friend i got a call from my ex and he was being super nice and asked me if i wanted to hang out and if i wanted to go out and have a good night. I told him yes. So he picked me up and we were driving he gave me a pill and told me that it was just gonna make me in a good mood. Then out of no where he started yelling at me and telling me ” what did i tell you about hanging out with so and so?” ( i have never cheated on this guy ) I responded as if i didn’t know what he was talking about which that made him even more mad. So he pulled over behind a building and was yelling at me and screaming telling me how much i fuc*** things up. So i got out of the car and he got out ran to the passenger side started hitting me. He hit me in my face, arms legs, finally he got me to the ground and he was kicking me in the stomache and he was being very aggresive. Normally i would have knocked his a$ $ back. But like i felt like i couldn’t defend myself I was very weak, I didn’t know why. Then i was thinking, ” he gave me that pill “. So my guess is he gave me that pill when he picked me up so that i couldn’t fight back. Anyways after he was done beating the $ hit out of me he got in the car and left. I sat behind the building crying I could barley move. He didn’t take anything from me but the keys to his house. He left me my phone and my purse with the rest of my belongings. I didnt call anyone i just sat there. Then later on that night about and hour or two later my guy friend called me and asked if he could come get me. I told him that i wasn’t home, He then asked where i was, I couldn’t tell him because i honestly had no idea. So i told him my surronding by walking into the front of the building and he then was able to come get me. I went home with him that night and we’ve had some contact since then.He noticed that i was bruised pretty bad and i had a headache but i dont remember him hitting me in the head or anything. Now my bruises are clearing up and I am just kinda sore. I haven’t filled any police reports or a PPO. I am deathly afraid of this guy but i don’t wanna press charges. Not because I love him or anything, because i really don’t i just feel like i was in the wrong. (like he said i was) So since then i have shut off the phone he bought me and i have not seen or talked to him. Do you guys feel like it was my fault he did this, or should i persue with charges? And what do you think he gave me??!!

Answers and Views:

Answer by theloveinhereyes.com
NO ONE deserves those things. You could try to press charges but definitely do not see him again. If he tries to force you to see him and you have any legal angle, take it. Don’t put yourself at risk because this is very dangerous.

The number one rule I know to keep you from getting in this situation again is to remember, love should feel good. If he’s making you feel bad, he doesn’t love you.

Answer by Stretch
No idea what he gave you, I’m not in the habit of drugging people.
NOTHING can excuse a guy beating on a woman, Nothing.
Up to you about pressing charges, at least the other guy saw your injuries if you need a witness.
Blows my mind how someone can hurt someone they say they care about.

Answer by Adam K
Why did u pick the pill any way :S A real mans never rise a hand agains a woman … no matter what is the reason .. u should press charges .. and i have no idea what did he gave you .. and a tracking device :S

Answer by John
That type never changes his strips, the phone is his link with you, cut the link, pull the card and have
someone drop off the phone. Call the cops, it will never work between you and he.
I was married at your age, and 500 women since, one would say I have history, and sometimes
offer some good advice. Follow your dreams, you have that look, stay away from those chill pills.
JACK

Answer by Steve
What he gave you is called a ( ruffy ) commonly known as a date drug pill . A Ruffy is something that makes you forget everything that happens and lets the person have his way with you . Sorry this happened .

Answer by Amoro
sorry for what happened to you.
yes dear; it was your fault going out with him, and taking that (*******) pill !
I hope you’ll know how to put a good end to all of that.
best wishes.