What is the sexual dynamic in the bedroom of married serial killers?

Not Feeling Myself Lately: What is the sexual dynamic in the bedroom of married serial killers?
I’ve always wondered with guys like the Green River Killer, and BTK who married for years and there wives were oblivious to their crimes. Since they were sexual murderers, i’m curious as to if there wives did not satisfy them to the extent they desired in the bedroom, or what?

Answers and Views:

Answer by GiGi
Ummmmmmmmm………….possibly.

Answer by weisenheimer
I’m sure their wives were very “traditional” when it came to sex. if there was a sex life at all. I suspect that the killers were unable to perform without the violence.

Answer by Xexx M
I doubt they had sex with their wives at all.

Answer by Libby
So they killed people because their wives didn’t satisfy them in bed? Is that what you’re saying? If so, that is seriously, seriously messed up thinking.

Answer by Sunny
It was probably pretty normal and vanilla. Serial killers are known for doing everything normal, by the book and plain so that no one suspects.

Answer by say it all…
See the link…it’s an entire article about the wives.

Answer by Ladyitch
We as a society will never really know~ their “lights” were on, but no one was at home!

I’d say yes, they were satisfied to an extent, with their wives~
it was the controlling of someone, is what they really “got off on”
They were more of a Control freak!
always,
Ladyitch

Answer by Sandra M
According to Gary Ridgeway’s wife she never noticed a thing. Strange huh? Apparently Dennis Raders wife was shocked by the news that her husband was the BTK Killer. However the article below says that he did the following:

He dressed in women’s underwear in the basement of his parent’s home, tied a rope around his neck, as if he were hanging and took pictures of himself.

Dennis Rader said the following:

“My big problem was my social contacts. When you live at home with a wife, you can’t go out and prowl around till 3 or 4 in the morning without your wife being suspicious. So I had to connect this all with school and work and family life. It was difficult, but that’s the way I did it, kind of like a spy.”

Rader’s biggest thrill was the anticipation before and the memories afterwards, not the actual murders. He fantasized about torturing and enslaving his victims after their death, in “after-life concepts of victims,” or “AFLV.” He took personal items as souvenirs from victims as time allowed.

“It was hit and miss. If it was a controlled situation, where I had more time, I took something, but if it was confusion and other things, I didn’t ’cause I was trying to get out of there.”

Rader used a “hit kit.”

“Plastic bags, rope, tape, knife, gun, all those would be in a kit they’d be where I could have them in the house and gather them up.”

The drawer in his City Hall office contained souvenirs from the killings, plus murder journals, sexual fantasy sketches, bondage, death, and torture chambers plans.

In a home closet he kept bondage pictures of women in scrapbooks and “slick ads” of sexual content in a plastic storage box. His wife didn’t go in that closet and never asked about it. He cut out ads of girls in lingerie or swimsuits that he glued on 3×5 index cards to carry in his pocket. There were hundreds of these with sexually explicit fantasies scrawled on the back.

“They’re models I use for sexual fantasies.”

He took Polaroid pictures of himself in bondage, wearing underwear he’d stolen from victims. In some photos he wore a mask

I can’t imagine that either of their sex lives with their own wives would have been much. Dennis Rader apparently practiced Autoerotica on himself and others and this is how he got off.