What is the best way of getting out of “making love” when you don’t feel like it?

darkhorse234: What is the best way of getting out of “making love” when you don’t feel like it?

Answers and Views:

Answer by 2005Alum
Be honest that you’re not up to it and give them a rain check for next time.

Answer by Trem
You say “not tonight, I don’t feel like it”.

Answer by Trevor
A divorce!

Ya know what…marriage isn’t all about you. Sure you aren’t in the mood but he is…if you aren’t providing for him, where is he going to look? I can think of dozens of things that I do every night that I am not in the mood to do but I do them anyway…

Answer by Jazzmin27
Men need to have it, if you don’t want to give it don’t date men and most of all don’t get marry.

Answer by Snow White Queen
seriously?

I say either, “no” or “wow! I’m tired…long day!”

But, that shouldn’t be an issue.

[edit] I agree with Trevor… you NEED to give your man what he wants, as long as he isn’ t being selfish about it… or he will be a’lookin. 🙂
[edit 2] If I wanna get it done quicker, I go down (oral) or hop on top and go at it… That seems to quicken it! hahaha

Answer by bejay
Eat some garlic. I hear it also keeps away Vampires …..Or is that Werewolves?

Answer by Rising Sun
Just do it and get it over with – it’s not like it takes long.

Answer by katt00
Tell him the truth.

Answer by Melissa
Oral sex it can be done quickly.

Answer by Chelsea
Well, by your picture, and the fact that no man would ever not want to, I’m assuming that you’re a woman. I would think that the best way would be to say that you are on your period and are having cramps, if he knows when your period is and doesn’t believe you, tell him that you are having some spotting and have cramps, I would defiantly add that you have cramps, because generally men don’t want to hurt the woman they are having sex with, so I would try that. Good Luck!!

Answer by Cass
My heeds bursting. Or I have the clap

Answer by Michael
Couldn’t have said it better than Trevor

Answer by GETitGIRL ———
Just tell your partner you’re not in the mood.

Answer by Renee
head ache, feel sick.. go to bed well before the other and fake u are asleep or stay awake till he is asleep

Answer by Chester ™
Just fake it til you make it

Answer by chato
give him a bj or a hj instead, that should make him happy.

Answer by Shannon
Bejer.

Answer by Optimist
Provide an alternative e.g a handjob. Otherwise, say you have a headache.

Answer by Mark H
My wife just tells me she doesn’t feel like it. No big deal as long as she makes an effort later. If she never feels like it, then we have an issue.

Answer by worldclass38
no means no plan and simple

Answer by peace!
that is a very rare thing for me to feel so if and when it does happen i am just honest and say that i do not feel like it and he is okay=]

Answer by t
“I got the runs.. sorry babe”

Answer by Malleable
Tell him you contracted a case of Vagina Dentata…

Answer by Tino {19}
LOL@ Sal! None taken.

I could be sick with a 103 temperature and I would STILL have sex with my wife.

Answer by James
easy just be honest

Answer by Report Rat
Break him off proper the first time. If you slob his knob and work that coochie until his toes are gripping the sheets then he won’t be able to hit it every day. Do the job right the first time and the rest will take care of itself!

Answer by BabeHart
.You simply decline, and make it up to your partner later. It’s rate that both parties are always going to want sex at the same time, and it’s okay to occasionally say “not right now honey”.

Answer by lickit4u
Make believe your throwing up?