What is easier, is it to “Fall in love”? Or to “Fall out of love”? Why..?

Into My Heart You Whisper: What is easier, is it to “Fall in love”? Or to “Fall out of love”? Why..?
What do you personally think about this?

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Answers and Views:

Answer by Fall
Human behaviour in general – it is easier to fall in love with opposite sex.

Answer by Ariful islam
In truth there is love

Answer by Sk
For me, falling out of love is harder. Once you’re in, you’re in… Coming out is a heck of a task. Even if things aren’t the same as before, I (and I think many people are like me) delude myself into thinking that they are and try to hold on…

Answer by Alkapone
I like what Agent Smith in the Matrix trilogy said about love to Neo: “It’s something you try to justify your existences with…”

Love is a virus, spreading chemical reaction in your brain and nervous system that’s affecting your decisions… Love kills…

However even though it has no practical reason, sometime it’s a pleasant virus… It makes you feel like on crack, makes you happy, and you may go through time and life having an illusion of purpose in life… and it kinda calms, cold logic and realization of absurdity and pointlessness of entire existence.

Answer by Fake Genius
can be just the same speed –

for some reasons, one falls in love –
at once
or
gradually
or
another manner is being close for a long time and never felt the love but suddenly falls in love (friends have this situation).

Fall out of love has that same similarity –

for some reasons (body image, being bored, being interested in different things, becoming dispassionate to such romantic love, etc.), one can lose love.

Some couple might just live together for life but they become somehow more close friends than lovers – this happen for good when people become old enough (grandma and grandpa).

Have a nice day,

Answer by the voy
falling in love can be [ instantaneous ]

fall out of love…… can take years of abuse and suffering before you give up and stop loving the person

why ?because iv lived enough to observe others and how they act…..monkey see monkey do….you learn by experience and observation on how to handel interpersonal relationships.

until some one comes and steals your heart away

and hopefully you learned enough to rationality know what is happening

Answer by BRIAN
The term ‘fall in love’ implies that you can ‘fall out of love’ and I am not a believer of that. You love and that is it and it is not conditional – you either love or you don’t and once you love there is no going back. That doesn’t mean that you necessarily like someone though. A friend of mine once said to me “I love my children to bits but I don’t like them very much.” I understand exactly what she meant.

Answer by Philosophia Perennis
Falling in love is always easy. You can fall in any ditch. Getting out is difficult. But you will have to get out. Once the love disappears the ditch becomes hell. Then there is quarreling, argument, nagging, and every kind of nastiness from both sides. Nobody wants to hurt; but because he is hurting, she is hurting, unknowingly they go on dumping their hurt feelings on the other.

In the first place, when you start falling in love, when you are still not in the ditch, that is the time to ask, because I have a totally different kind of love affair which is called rising in love. Then there is no problem. Rising in love is beautiful, and getting out of it is very easy, because that will be falling down. Falling down is easy, keep it for the next step; for the first step, always use rising. The easier step you have done, now you have to do the difficult one. And it will happen — all these tears and conflicts, but nothing can bring the love back. A simple thing has to be understood: love — the love that you are talking about — is not in your hands. You have fallen into it. It was not in your power not to fall, so when it comes, it takes you with it. But it is like a breeze, it comes and goes. And it is good that it comes and goes, because if it stays it becomes stale. A little understanding is needed on both sides, that the love is no longer there. There is no need to hate each other, because nobody has destroyed it — nobody has created it. It had come like a breeze, you enjoyed those moments; be thankful to each other and help each other to come out of the ditch. In a ditch, that is the only way. The man, to be really manly, should give his shoulders for the woman to rise up and get out of the ditch. And the man can find his own gymnastics, how to do it.

Rising in love is a totally different matter. Rising in love means a learning, a changing, a maturity. Rising in love ultimately helps you to become grown-up. And two grown-up persons don’t quarrel; they try to understand, they try to solve any problem. Anybody who rises in love never falls from it, because rising is your effort, and the love that is grown through your effort is within your hands. But falling in love is not your effort. Falling in love — that love is going to be disrupted somewhere, and the sooner it is understood that it is gone, the better; otherwise you become too entangled in a thousand and one things. Those are the things which make it difficult to separate. When you fall in love, no questions arise. You are clean, the other person is clean. But when you want to separate, the days, the nights, the years that you have lived together, loved together, experienced something which is one of the most beautiful gifts of nature — you go on becoming entangled. You go on giving promises to each other… and it is not that you are lying or deceiving; in those beautiful moments those promises seem to be absolutely coming from your heart.

Rising in love is something spiritual.

Falling in love is something biological.

Biology is blind, that’s why love is called blind. But the love I am talking about is the only insight that is easily available to everyone. Just a little effort….

Love should come out of your silence, awareness, meditativeness. It is soft, it is unbinding — because how can love create fetters for the one who is loved? It is giving freedom to each other, more and more. As the love grows deeper, freedom becomes bigger. As the love grows deeper, you start accepting the person as he is. You stop trying to change the person.

It is one of the miseries of the world that lovers are continuously trying to change the other person. They don’t know that if the person really changes, their love will disappear, because they had not fallen in love with this changed person in the first place. They had fallen in love with a person who was not touched by their ideas — “Change this and that.” Rising in love, you become aware that the other has his own territorial imperative, and you are not to encroach upon it. If love becomes freedom, then there is no need to separate. The idea of separation arises because you go on seeing that you are becoming more and more a slave, and nobody likes slavery. You owe it to existence that the parting should be made beautiful. Forget all your promises — they were right when they were given, but the time has changed, you have changed. If love can become friendship, there is no guilt, no grudge, no feeling that you have been cheated, exploited. Nobody has exploited anybody; it was just the biological energy which made you blind.

Any love enforced for any reasons, is not love. Try not to fall, but try to rise. Don’t let biology dominate you. Your consciousness should be the master.

May you always shine like a Star and be fragrant like a Flower,
God bless your Life with infinite Love and Peace, Amen.

Answer by Deja Vu
to amicably resolve a relationship – “Fall out of Love” – the wonderful times shared and remembered!

knowing there is truth in Love and Grace…

Answer by artist4u
There is no effort to falling in Love .Love is hard to explain as it is to leave or fall out of Love.Where else would you go then.You’d be confused about what love was now wouldn’t you. and maybe some bitterness or emotions would cause you to go in a direction you may not have gone if you still had your love.Love can seem to be crewl ,but then if this person does not feel as you is it really love?

Answer by small
Falling out of love is as easy as falling in love, because you fall out of love when you fall in love with another……. in a good majority of cases, that’s how one falls out of love.

Answer by Phoenix Quill
Love is assuming responsibility for the well being of another.

Hence falling ‘out’ of love is the relinquish this.

In terms of ‘effort’ is far easier to NOT be in Love.

Ah but in terms of the ‘ease’ of transition in emotional state, divorced somewhat from the actuality of effort, then it could be well argued that it’s easier to fall in love – because it is what we are ‘trying’ to do.

Love is finding your team.

Answer by phil8656
Falling in is easier for me.
Falling out is a long and slow process.

Answer by Benoy Das
I think the 1st one is the easier thing. becoz every one in this planet is a priest of beauty.so where ever u find the beauty u have to fall in love but but how can you maintain, its a another thing.

Answer by Blue-eyed Girl
To fall in love (romantically) is far easier, because ego? It isn’t there (well it is we just don’t recognize it). Pride? It isn’t there. Reality? Nope!!

But falling out of love? Aw man!! Ego, pride, reality…all of it, and then some.

Answer by John the Revelator
Your an idiot, thats why.