What is an orgasm and how exactly does it feel?

Anna A: What is an orgasm and how exactly does it feel?
I am 25 years old I just got married 4 months ago and since then I have not had an orgasm during intercourse. Before getting married we had sex many times, I thought I had orgasm before but know I think I did not experience that. Since we got married I have not had that feeling I had before. My husband is very patient and good to me but I just can’t feel it.

Answers and Views:

Answer by jay z
If you thought it was an orgasm but are doubting then I don’t think you had an orgasm. Go to www.clitical.com and see what you can get from them. Also try masturbating, it’ll help to know yourself better

Answer by Moira
Go to this website:

https://www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/female_sexual_arousal_and_orgasm.htm

It has all the information you need.`

Answer by HerHuggyBunny
An orgasm is all the things you feel and all the things that happen with your body at the peak of sexual arousal and pleasure. It’s a reflex we’re all born with (just like knee jerks and sneezes) that our bodies have in response to sexual stimulation. You will *definitely* know when you have one. There’s nothing else anywhere in human experience that feels that way.

It can take a girl or woman anywhere from a few seconds to a couple of hours to reach orgasm. Both of these are pretty unusual but perfectly normal, and anything in between is just fine… and most can get there in much less than 10 minutes when they masturbate.

Just before orgasm, you might have a feeling a bit like you have to pee, but it’s not quite the same, and when your orgasm first happens, there’ll be a very strong (sometimes intense and *powerful*), warm and sometimes tingly feeling that spreads from your clitoris to your vagina and then through your whole lower body. Then very quickly your clitoris, your vagina, your crotch muscles and your butt-hole will squeeze and pulse a few times while that feeling spreads all over you.

During all this, your toes will probably curl, you might feel like you need to hold your breath or like you have to breathe really fast, your body will want to tense up and might jerk or shake or shiver, and you might make some noises (grunts, gasps, groans or cries) that you can’t really control. You might “squirt” or “ejaculate” a lot of fluid from your urethra (don’t worry, it’s not pee). The physical and emotional pleasure that you’ll feel everywhere at the same time is just about the best feeling a human body can have.

(Everything you “might” feel or do above isn’t always going to happen… some orgasms are much less overwhelming than just *very* pleasureable.)

As that feeling becomes more gentle and starts to go away (after maybe 5 to 20 seconds), your whole body will begin to relax, your skin will flush pinker (especially over your chest) and you might feel sort of like having a nap… or like just lying there and letting your mind drift… or even like doing it again (and again… etc) right away.

It’s not often, but it *can* happen sometimes that there’ll be no interruption at all between several orgasms in a row, and it can feel like one single orgasm… intense physical pleasure and whole-body tension and release that can last anywhere from 30 or 40 seconds to several minutes.

I can’t tell you every step there is to have an orgasm… every girl and woman is different, and it would take way longer for me to type it all out than it would for you to give yourself one… but one thing you can do to find out is check out these webpages:

Read the pages all the way through, and try some of the things suggested. Take your time (it might take a whole afternoon the first time), and just enjoy learning what feels best for you. Sooner or later, you’ll have an orgasm in one or more of these ways, and they get better each time if you’re one of those lucky girls who can have them again and again.

Then you’ll know what one is and how to have one, for sure.

Have fun and don’t worry. Masturbation is having sex with the only person you’ll ever meet who knows *exactly* what you feel and what you like, even if that changes every second. It’s normal and healthy, learning what pleases you sexually is good for you, and when it comes to having sex with your hubby you’ll be able to tell him (or to show him if you like) the things you like best and share your orgasms with him.

Answer by babyx
Its that really amazing feel when you body kinda quivers, you loose your breath, and bam your exhausted.

Answer by bassie
i doubt you ever had an orgasm cuz if you did you would not ask….its an overwhelming feeling that rips through your body right from the core and its so intense that the moment it starts coming damn baby u cant control it you might probably start saying all stupid stuff that comes into your mind. if your husband is very good just communicate with him about where u liked to be touched and hopefully things might pick up trust me guys need a lot of coaching when it comes to our bodies and since we are all different u will be the best person to teach him good luck

Answer by <3..
It’s an amazing feeling and when you reach it, you’ll know. I can feel it building up. My toes curl, I shake and can’t control myself.. sometimes I scream really loud.. ha! Usually right after I’m really tired and I just want to sleep and my legs shake. I think that’s normal..? You’ll know though.. but it doesn’t always happen immediately.

Answer by Larkin L
You’d know it if you had one. Consider getting a hand held body massager or vibrator.

Most women do not have one through sexual intercourse alone, it requires direct manual or oral stimulation to the clitoris.

Signs: increase in blood pressure and pulse rate; breathing quickens; increase in vaginal lubrication; clitoris becomes erect and exposed; breasts become enlarged, nipples erect; skin flushes, particularly the face and chest; pelvic muscle spasms, causing vaginal contractions and orgasmic sensations. Could be throbbing, tingling, pulsating waves of pleasure.