Which is worse, a husband or a wife who loses interest in “making love”?

Abstinence_Education: Which is worse, a husband or a wife who loses interest in “making love”?
I always thought it was worse if the wife loses interest because men have ten times higher drive than women. If the husband loses interest, the wife may be relieved that he is no longer nagging her to do her “wifey duty” and she can get some peace and sleep.
Explain your reason for your choice.

Answers and Views:

Answer by Zara
um lol
dosent matte to me because
My Hubby and ii NEVER lose interest in our making love time <3

Answer by JeBo
a husband. trust me. it is awful.

Answer by sunny
its worse for the relationship if the woman loses interest because then the man will feel his needs ain’t being met.

its good for the woman if the man loses interest because like you said she won’t have to do the wifely duty as much but it would also raise a red flag because a mans sex drive is higher than a woman’s so if he loses interest in sex with his wife he is most likely found interest in it elsewhere.

Answer by BabeHeart
Plenty of women have very high sex drives (a fair number have higher ones than plenty of men). I assure you I wouldn’t stay indefinitely in a sexless relationship.

Which is worse? It’s not good when EITHER loses interest because that’s most likely going to end up being the path that leads to the end of their relationship. The one being sexually neglected will either cheat (and get caught and things will end) or just end the marriage because they don’t want to live as just roommates.

Answer by judy j
If the husband was really interested at first and isnt now, it may be a sign he’s getting it from somewhere else. The attitude wifey
duty, men don’t want to make love if they think the woman really isnt in to it, dont you think they want a willing partner.

Answer by wes436584
Im no doctor but the older we get the less the libido and drive keeps working…this sucks…since duty time should be all the time between the both of you…need to figure out how important this is between the both of and what it takes to get it back on center…A) start with a conversation…if A leads to yes then move to B) what will it take…do you both need a doctor…there are pills for help and even stuff you can get w/o a perscription at the drug store …for both sexes…and the stuff works! C) Marriage is work and its also a commitment….

Answer by Carimel
A husband.

It’s normal for wives not to always be in the mood. But if the husband’s not in the mood….he’s either getting it somewhere else, or he’s gay.

Answer by Annabella
You must have a very twisted view of women & sex. Not all of us think of it as a “duty”. Some of us actually enjoy it & it’s very damaging to our self esteem to not be physically desired anymore.

Answer by angelica;<3
I think it’s just the same of worse.

Answer by mikskali
Either one is the same as both. Well – what I mean is that it takes two – and if either one is missing all is lost.

I don’t agree with your assumption that sex for women is simply ‘duty’. Many of us love it and are just as disconsolate as any man when we realize we are no longer desired.

Answer by Reverend Boony
If it has a negative effect on the relationship then it doesnt matter which one loses intrest, its still gonna cause problems.

Answer by wondermom
It depends….. on who the spouse is… first off the husband has a higher sex drive in his younger years but that changes by the time a woman hits her thirties she has the higher sex driver more so then male.

I guess the fustrated spouse on the other end not getting the sex… doesn’t matter who if male or female doing without is doing without.

Answer by KC
No worse both lose!

Answer by [email protected]
both are equally bad and problematic for a relationship

Answer by We Need Answers, People!!
Worse when women lose it, but I can’t imagine not wanting it. I like having sex more than he average bear. I try like 5-7 times a week but my wife only gives it to me like that for a couple weeks a month, the rest of the time she gives it 2-5 times a week. Bottom line guys have old sperm that they need to get rid of!