D: What does it mean when a male co worker jokes with you in a sexual manner?
Does it mean he like you or that he is sexually attracted to you? I have a friend who is also a co worker that makes sexually, freaky jokes to me (I’m a woman) and he is a good person so it doesn’t really bother me. But what’s up with this? Does he like me and think of me in that way? Is he trying to drop hints?
Answers and Views:
Answer by Joanne A.
He is hoping to go to bed with you.
So is your good friend.
Answer by Nate
He’d like to put the P in the V, or at least B his L on your T’s. You should let him. Then make him a sandwich.
Answer by auntie.may40
It means that his misguided idea of humor overrides his understanding of decent conduct, not to mention the possibility of getting reported for sexual harassment in the workplace.
You’d do well to tell him those remarks and jokes are not appropriate. If he’s single, and really wants to start a relationship with you, he could ask you out for lunch or something. Actually, though, many organizations frown on romances between co-workers, so perhaps you’d better put the brakes on pretty firmly.
Answer by ♥
Some guys are just like that. I have a friend who swears, is vulgar and crude, but never in an insulting or inappropriate way. He’s not interested in me and I’m not interested in him, our friendship is entirely platonic. Some people don’t draw a distinction between work freinds and home friends.
If his jokes make you uncomfortable, speak up, or show your discomfort through body language if you don’t want confrontation. If you’re attracted to him, flirt back or flash a big smile and see how he retorts.
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