What does sex mean in its different forms?

Eliza: What does sex mean in its different forms?
I feel confused about sex.

What does sex mean when it is done within a loving and committed relationship? When it is done within a relationship that has deep meaning to it outside of sex as well.

What does sex mean when it happens during a one night stand when there are no feelings involved?

How can the same act be different in two different situations? How can it mean something different. If it meant nothing in one instance then why would it mean anything in another instance?

I strongly believe sex does not mean love, so then what does it mean?

Answers and Views:

Answer by Bob
Sex doesn’t mean love – you can have sex without it eg; one night stands, flings, affairs etc.
That’s lust.

When two people are in love sex is a consequence of that – an expression of their love. Love made physical.

So the difference is lust and love. While a one night stand will fill the physical hole it can’t fill the emotional need for a stable and loving relationship.

So no sex isn’t love. Sex is sex. But when done with someone you truly care about it becomes an act of love.

Hope that helps =)

Answer by Monkeyblah
Sex is physical love. If you are truly in love with someone, it will be passionate, and you will be both satisfied. If you don’t really love someone, you shouldn’t have sex. It will stick with you for a long time, if not forever. Sex is a delicate thing, and if you do it with the right person, it is a great part of life. If you are too young for sex, don’t worry about it. Don’t think about. If it still bothers you talk to someone you trust, who KNOWS about it. Don’t trust someone who has never had sex before to give you information about it. Sex means love under the right circumstances

Answer by Will
Sex can mean anything you want it to.
It can be something purely physical or can mean something deep, just like anything from being in the company of someone else, holding hands, kissing and the rest.
It depends on how you feel for the other person, and how they feel for you.

When you have sex with someone you love, for a guy, sometimes the feelings are still partially or completely separated (physical and emotional) and sometimes they are interlinked.
Women generally find more of an emotional link in sex, and are more likely (but not necessarily) to have trouble not developing emotions for someone they are having sex with.
For both men and women, this changes person to person.

With casual sex, people are mostly looking to satisfy their own desires, needs. The advantage here is that you aren’t tied to a person and can have sex with multiple people.

I find though, that when you love someone, sex is deeper and more meaningful because there is another plain to it, not to mention enjoyable. That’s not to say that casual sex isn’t enjoyable, because it is, but i find that sex with someone you know and care about (and especially [mainly] someone who feels the same) is nicer, because you know each other, what each other enjoys (though this can develop if you have sex with the same person a few times as well), and are more considerate of each other, and more wanting to please the other person than just yourself, so you both enjoy it as much as possible.

Answer by Crystal
Sex is a physical act that needs to be kept between two people that are in love, and I do speak from experience. I have had quite a few one-night stands. Yeah, I know…slut. The sex didn’t turn into a full blown relationship and the guys I did it with didn’t respect me after it was over. But, a few years ago I started dating a man that I really, really liked. I was so afraid of what he might think of me should we “do the deed,” that I didn’t make love to him for nine months. Believe me, it was hard. But I grew to love him so quickly over that time that I didn’t mind not having sex. Amazingly, once we did finally make love, I can honestly say that it was the best sex I had ever had. The one-night stands were a joke compared to how in sync we were with one another, and how wonderful it felt emotionally to be together. We have been married for seven years and are blissfully happy. Trust me, the only way to have a “happily ever after” is to wait and make love with the person that you are fully committed to and with whom you are in love. And I do not mean the fleeting puppy love of high school, but the true love that can only be established between two mature adults.

Answer by coolawesomeness
Ok ..so firstly u are slow as balls..when mans weinis goes in a girls va Jay jay .. u pretty much are in there like swimwear! damn ur such a virgin

Answer by *~* U KNO *~*
To be honest a one night stand means (there WAS NOTHING) you or the other person was just wanting to nut! That’s all with that…

Sex dont mean anything it is a way to express yourself (to show your feelings for one another.)

If it is done with someone who you care for its to share a moment of honest feeling and just let it all out with the force you give sex.

If you have a one night stand…well honestly those arnt good….You are giving something of yours to someone that you either dont really know and just met…

I really hope this helped..Im going to school for therapist.