honey801: What does loving somebody unconditionally mean?
I understand this means loving somebody no matter what, but how do you continue to love somebody after they have cheated on you? After they have made you feel like you will never be enough? How do you keep loving somebody when you never know what the whole, real truth is? Can anyone tell me how to love unconditionally? Thank you!
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Answer by Peachy Perfect
If you love them unconditionally, you love THEM no matter what, but it doesn’t mean you have to love everything they do. I love people who have made some horrible decisions in their lives. I can love them as a person, as a friend, and — excuse the religiosity — as a child of God, but I don’t have to love the things they have done, and I don’t have to trust them.
if you love someone unconditionally, you love them for who they are, and you don’t care about their flaws.
but it hurts more when they cheat on you.
here’s is where you know if you TRULY love this person or not, consider a lot of things you go threw as a test of the strength of your love (whether it was you to him or him to you).
if he proves that he regrets what he did (assuming it’s a he).
loving someone unconditionally is when you give them another chance, you give them a chance to prove that you are more than enough, show you that you can trust them again.
if you found it in your heart to really forgive them and trust them again, then i guess that’s how you love unconditionally.
and you never know the “whole,real truth”, you just have to follow your heart in this, this is something that no one can tell you how to fix or how to believe if it’s true or not, if the person is being sincere or not, it’s all on you and what your heart tells you.
i hope you understood what i was trying to say.
hope i helped.
good luck and take care.
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