A: what does it mean when a guy says he wants to “make love”?
I have been dating this guy for several months now.
I’m 18, he’s 24 and much more experienced than me
I am still a virgin, meaning NO oral either. (giving or getting).
We have not had any type of sex, although I know he wants to – but he respects my decision
I think we’re getting serious
and the other day he said “we could make love and then cuddle and talk until we fall asleep”
I mean. he has boned girls left and right when he was younger. I am surprised he has waited this long without pressuring me. He says that he is glad that I am the “good girl” type and appreciates that I’m a virgin
Opinions? thoughts?
we’ve been together 8 months
Answers and Views:
Answer by Sidney Panda
He really cares about you, guys don’t use the term “make love” unless they genuinely care about you, or just really tired of waiting so he wants to get you in bed.. But I think the first choice is more understandable. I mean he wouldn’t wait for nothing.
Make love=sex
I think you guys shouldAnswer by Rachel Smith
Ummm…. the smart guys use the term “make love”. Exactly how long is several months…Answer by Ciara
Awwww he sounds nice…..go for it. =)Answer by Thompson
Basically he wants to have SEX with you when he says “make love.”
“we could make love and then cuddle and talk until we fall asleep” seems like he wants to have sex with you and stay with you or he wants to have a one night stand and leave you. Most guys are in it for sex and leave but watch out if i were you because guys are animals.Answer by David
I`m not sure what you`re asking, but it sounds like he`s a decent guy. I personally would prefer to see you with a guy closer to your own age, not because six years is a big difference. It`s not. But because you don`t have much experience, but that`s just me.If you like him, you like him.I would just say don`t have sex with him just because you feel like you “should” or to make him happy. If and when you do it, do it because YOU WANT to.
I feel for you. I was a virgin until my wife and I married. She had alot more experience than me, but respected that I wanted to wait. (We`re probably a bit different there, but it was a similar situation.)
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