Was this horrible of him? How do I get over him?

Nina J: Was this horrible of him? How do I get over him?
So, I’ve liked this guy for about a year. We’re both turning 18 soon. We hang around in the same close group of friends, but he and I never used to get along, we’d argue about everything, always have different opinions and be pretty horrible to each other. Over the past year or so we have learnt to get along better. You might call us friends now, though it’s still pretty awkward between us and we do still sometimes argue.

Anyway. I told my friend I liked him, she told him that she knew someone who liked him (I did not tell her to, I wasn’t wanting to let him know at all because I didn’t think he’d feel the same. She did it without asking, though with good intentions..), a couple of things gave him reason to suspect it could be me, though nothing big or obvious. So, I was walking with him and a couple of our other friends and he said he was annoyed at our mutual friend who I told. I asked why and he said that she told him something that one of us said but she wouldn’t say who and he thought it was me. He wouldn’t say what, but later on when it was just me and him I asked him again what it was, though I had a pretty good idea. He wouldn’t say, I told him if he wants to know who said it he should tell me and I can tell him whether it was me or not. Then he said “I DON’T want to know if it is you. It would be very disturbing if it was you.” and then we got to class so that was it.

This was on Friday. I was pretty upset by that. I mean, I get it if he doesn’t like me, I can live with that, but surely he’d realise if it was me I’d know what he was talking about and that would upset me? Was that unfair of him?

The thing is, I really like him, and he seems to be a really nice guy even if he used to be mean to me, I was the same. His saying that makes me uncertain about that though. Anyway, I get I need to get over it, right, he made it pretty clear he isn’t remotely interested? I just REALLY like him, and have for this long, and only am more and more as time passes. I tried to get over it for the first 6 months I liked him because of our past, but I couldn’t. I like him even more now. How am I meant to get over it? And, what should I think of him after he said that? How bad do you think that is to say to someone who you think probably really likes you?

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Answer by alexander w
.Look he can say whatever he likes but it doesn’t alter the fact that he is wondering about this. So get your motor mouth friend to tell him it is you.Then judge his reaction.As I think he likes you