Tell me the difference between “having sex” and “making love”?

Hibernating Ladybird: Tell me the difference between “having sex” and “making love”?
… and what happens to those who make love, but their partner is actually only having sex with them, and they find out about this only later, and, then… well, do they call it in the next relationship also “making love”?
How can they make love so many times?
Are they in love so many times???
Are there so many true loves out there?
So many guys who seem to be “the right one”, and yet they prove not to be?
Or, how is all thaat?

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Jizzmopper, I like that honesty, man!!!
hehe… more answers, please….. I still haven’t found my answer
Blackpearls, if your husband died, that means you are back into the single-circles with full and equal rights. If you have already found someone you love, that is even better!
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That’s the right way to go.
Now, if he died just about one year ago, and you are still mourning over it, if you are still depressed over it… that won’t help any new relationship to flourish. You may just get too attached to the new man and make him run away.
Find your peace first, calm down, accept that you are alone in this world for a while and try to get used to it.

I am sure, that the moment you accept the idea, everything will change! Most importantly, you will be able to truely LOVE again. And from that moment on, life is back in balance again, that man you were crying after… he will come back to you.
Or, if not him, then another one.
Cheer up.
this was only a comment for her alone, cause she is always sad on here, sad and bitter… I cannot watch that any more without saying something useful, or helpful

other than that, wow, really good answers

Answers and Views:

Answer by lyk2lik
about 75 bucks

Answer by Paul
Perspective I suppose. One is to feed the emotions the other is to feed the body…

Answer by knowitall
make love means having sex but doing some heavy french kissing.

Answer by Ice Raven
If it feels like love, then its making love.If your only doin it to get plesure, then its nothing more then sex.

Answer by Aashish
HAVING SEX is spending a night with someone.
MAKING LOVE is spending the whole life with someone

and i think there is a lot of difference between them

Answer by mjboog2
i’ve always thought of it this way:

fu**ing is rough, hardcore, physical only (a quickie)

sex is more gentle, but still pretty much only physical
(example of ^…a married couple has sex when one of the partners really isn’t in the mood, but does so anyway to make the other happy….making a compromise)

making love is more of an intimate, emotional moment that just happens to include intercourse

Answer by fivestarmama
Havig sex is the physical act of procreation. Making love infers an emotional aspect to the act. Feelings are the difference in the act. One’s feelings are the basis of ‘making love’ and in my humble opinion love does not occur as often as people assume, therefore if one does not have deep feelings they are simply having sex, not making love.

Answer by mmeremikwu jude c
when u have intercos with desire, persion with whom u did it with, then that is makin love. but when u dont have any desire may be u force ur self into it or some one force u into it, that means u did it without love, then that is ordinary sex but above all both sex and love making are known as sex.

Answer by lyf4ce
Making love entails a strong emotional bond. It might not necessarily be with your “one true love” or “the love of your life”, although at the time that might be what it seems they are, but the SHARED emotional connection makes it making love.

If one of you is not emotionally connected during the process, it’s just sex. Having sex is something to do to either pass the time or fill a physical want/need.

Answer by blackpearls
Well, this is hard for me to answer. I have only had one sexual partner. He was my husband. Sometimes we had what he called ” a quicke” because thats what he wanted. Most times we made love. Whatever it was deemed for the moment in time, we had an emotional bond between us regardless because we were in love with one another. Sadly he is no longer in this world but I still carry in my heart those emotional ties that we had together and I will never forget them….As far as my life now, I can only hope to have an emotional bond with another some day. Its possible as I am in love again. Just haven’t consumated the fact……..

Answer by Beto
Pretty good answers. I want to add that you know inside if you are making love or just having sex, and your partner won’t know unless you tell her/him so. Most they keep it for themselves, communication is critical in getting to know your partner. Some couples, married or not married can have both or only one and be happy. This issue can get very long. The bottom line, action says more than word. If your partner is demanding you to be physically involve (wether she/he call it “making love”or “having sex”), this is not a true relationship and she/he is not the right one.

Answer by digilook
When I was younger I thought love was something I found in the “fruit,” so to speak. If it looked good, smelled good, felt good, it was love, it was good. As I matured, I found that I had to find a woman that I was spiritually compatible with, mentally compatible with, emotionally compatible with and, lastly, physically compatible with. I had my perspective all back a** backwards. I always thought the physical first, but found that goes away pretty fast. When I take my time and get to know someone, not just the outside, but the inside, my life is full of love not lust. A short answer is, take your time, the heat is MUCH better with a compatable union.

Peace and Love