Making “love”, I am really loud and we’re in an apt complex… wonder if there is an etiquette for this?

junerune: Making “love”, I am really loud and we’re in an apt complex… wonder if there is an etiquette for this?
We have sex a lot and at various times… like today, we did it at 9AM and at 5:30pm and I am really, really loud. We’re on the second floor of an apartment complex. My husband tells me, shhh tone it down the neighbors will hear, and I say, “Who cares?” Should I really tone it down?

Answers and Views:

Answer by ♥Invisible Pink Unicorn♥
Girl get your freak on – I agree who cares!

Answer by Ashley
yes i think u should its not appropiate
people dont need to know when u r having sex every day
thats something private

Answer by Anna
I’m loud and my neighbors have never complained, although I think the walls are really thick because we have a baby right across the hall and I’ve never heard a peep out of it.

Answer by Cracker Jack
No, stay loud. That’s awesome to hear.

Answer by will i cya
Honey, when my husband and I were dating, I use to love having sex while the window was opened and the blinds pulled up, just so everyone can see what I was doing. Loud, child please, I am a blow horn.

Answer by fox_maple
yes, you should tone it down. It is making your husband uncomfortable, which is the last thing you want to do during sex. Besides, do you want to get awkward looks from your neighbours?

Answer by ensoman
Maybe change the times like 11PM / 1AM to try to sync with others in the apt and your noise will blend in with hundred others doing it at the same time.

Answer by a.mcmillan2008
I GUESS LOUD IS HOW YOU ARE EXPressing what you want..lol..ask him why he is not getting loud?lol.. tell him to let go

Answer by Julie
haha, maybe a little. common courtesy i guess

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Answer by Mooches
I’m the same way…..very loud. Lol! Who cares? If your neighbors get upset then their all a bunch of haters who jealous cuz nobodies rocking their world like yours 🙂 I would rather hear love making then domestic violence. Your neighbors situation could always be worse. Do you girlie 🙂

Answer by massiel248
you should tone it down only if your husband is uncomfortable with it. otherwise who cares.

Answer by pinky me
if he says tone it then maybe you are being really loud try bitting down on a pillow it muffles the sound.

Answer by L L
Yes, if your husband is uncomfortable, that cant be helping him. And the whole apt complex doesnt need to hear that. Its a private act.

Answer by NaTuRaL bRuNeTtE <3
when it comes to sex, “manners” are out of the question. let your natural animal instincts get the better of you, its the only time in our lives when acting and feeling crazy and animal-like are acceptable. just, be careful where you have it, i don’t advise having sex in the streets or with the door open when the kiddies are asleep. also, unleashing some of that vocal enthusiasm is better for you chemically, because you are turning that sexual energy into a pleasureable and sweet release. otherwise, you are holding back your ability to fully enjoy sex. if it bothers your husband to much, then take it somewhere you can be competely secluded and not have to worry about waking the neigbhors.

Answer by celestia ck
i think u should keep it down cause if ur husband is worrying , how on earth is he goin full force on u. mayb u can put on some music.

Answer by Mike
I say screw it, let loose, and don’t hold back. Then again sometimes you have to make compromises…so maybe for him you could take it down a notch?…Also, check out my source. It’s almost the same question as yours and there’s a bunch of good answers.

Answer by Todd L
As for the neighbors, who cares if they hear you. But if it makes your husband uncomfortable maybe you should try to tone it down a little.

By the way we live in a trailer park and if I can hear my neighbors TV then they can hear me and my wife during sex and we don’t care.

Answer by 6inch heels
Nothing wrong with loud. It’s hot!

BUT, if your husband is uncomfortable with it than you should tone it down at times. Sex is about you and him, not you, him, and everybody in the complex. Respect your husband by keeping it down. You can even do this in a kinky way by biting on a rope he is holding or something. OR role play and pretend that you’re somewhere dangerous and getting caught would mean big trouble.

Answer by Marcie
Why don’t you just do it in the parking lot so everyone can see as well as hear! Jeez… who wants to listen to some stupid exhibitionist!
Stick a sock in your mouth.

Answer by FrittyKitty
Yes, you should tone it down.
It is actually annoying to hear anyone have sex, because lets face it, some people come home from work and they want their peace and quiet.

The same way you wouldn’t play loud music….well……treat this 1000 times more seriously.

Why would you want your neighbors to hear you in such intimate way? Its rude and inappropriate.

Answer by K
Can you attach an audio on this forum?

Maybe that will help us make an assessment.

I think it is great. And I think YOU are great too.

Go Dear… and wake the dead.

Answer by iwuvoni187299
Why are you so loud? Is it really necessary? I think people who are loud in the sack, force it which means normally that your faking it. Try being normal and not screaming, how about that.