SEx????????

alex z: SEx????????
I am going to have sex for the very fist time soon and I dont know what to do. Please no stupid answers, only serious answers. What should I wear? How should I get her into the mood (I am a man)? Anything you can do, please help…
Its her first time too, we’re married for you who are saying its a sin…
I am between 27 and 33… don’t want to say my age…

Answers and Views:

Answer by boogie011782
I guess the first question would be, is the young lady also pure, and this would be her first time to have sex as well?

Don’t panic, your first time is never going to be the best! And it certainly won’t have any bearing on the rest of your sexual career.

The most important thing to remember is that the vagina must be properly lubricated, so don’t rush things. .
Wait until you really want to have sex, don’t just do it, because you have reached a certain age, or because everyone else is doing it. It has nothing to do with how old you are, more how much you want to do it, so wait for the right time. The missionary position is best for your first time, she can easily guide your penis in with your her hand and wait for the right moment. This position will allow her vaginal muscles to relax too, being too tense could cause pain or discomfort.

You will be just fine, if the time is right you and her will know. Relax, wear a condom, and dress like you normally would. Being fresh and clean will help set the mood as well. Think and make sure this is something you want to do, for this is a big right-of-passage for someone.

My best advice is wait until your married to her, and make it speacial, don’t reuion the gift now.

Answer by lisa
Just dont have it!! it is a sin!

Answer by trymejames
Please be careful… do not be forceful.. or you will ended up being sued for rape.
Also before sex… do make sure that the woman is sane… so that she does not pull a fast one on you and reported you for RAPE.
Never get involve with trouble woman… You will end up having trouble..

take care..

Answer by karen s
What should you wear? Are you guys going out before that “time”? Dress as usual…always wear protection!!! most important. take things slow, make her comfy. burn some candles, turn the lights out…good luck!

Answer by sierraaspenautumn13
DUDE wait wait wait…
ok now…
1. i hope ur married
2. how old are u?!?!

Answer by clayc93
come on, how do you not get stupid answers with “what should i wear?” umm nothing. theres realy no way to just get in the mood, it just happens. just use a condom, and dont cry afterwards(dont know why you would)

Answer by Brewtus
First of all if you have planned on having sex on a certain day that is a mistake. Sex shouldn’t be something scheduled, it should be spontaneous. It should be something that just happens because you both feel strongly for eachother, and if this is the case what you are wearing shouldn’t matter at all. When the time comes you will know it, but don’t plan it out. Planning it out makes it much less special of a time, and takes the emotion out of it.

Answer by strawberryshortk86
go with your instinct…kiss her, touch, etc. Try different things to see what you and her like…it doesnt matter what you do as long as it is pleasing for both of you. and by the way make sure you old enough to handle the responsibilities that come with sex…protection not only for diseases but for pregnancy too. If your under 18 dont do it it isnt worth it to have such a big risk. Also dont do it just to do it do it with someone you really care and love and it is 100% better than doing it just out of lust.

Answer by ImAGoodGirl85
Wear your pajamas or boxers. Look into her eyes, kiss her tenderly, hold her, whisper sweet things in her ear,kiss and suck on her neck. Tell her she is beautiful, and make love to her gently. If you really wanna drive her crazy …kiss her inner thighs and perform oral on her. Good Luck!

Answer by sportlife58
well if its her first time its really easy because shell be just as worried as u. she wont kno if ur doing it right or wrong and has no idea wut to expect. theres not to muh u can do wrong and even if u do im sure shes gonan understand. my first time i just stuck it in and i dont really remeber after that cuz i was so nervous.plus its done quick ur first time.to get her into the mood finger her and caress her body before u take off her clothes.

Answer by BabeHeart
Wear whatever you like…clothing gets removed (typically) for sex so it matters not what you have on. The more comfy you are, that’ll be one less thing on your mind.

As for getting her in the mood, pay her attention and be affectionate. Guys usually figure out as teens what to say and do to get girls to have sex with them…if you’ve probably seen seduction a million times on tv and in movies from the dramatic to the comical…

Just relax and let her know you desire to be intimate with her…enjoy!

Answer by puppy4852
Well you should ask her if she wants to have sex with you because if you just do it to her she might get mad. Also just be your self when u do it with her. Good LUck!

Answer by tundra24bunnie
First of all.

How old are you???
What to wear??
Whatever you feel good and confident in.

What to do???
Good One.
Depends where you are!!!

Don’t presure her that’s for sure.
If she wants to, she will give you those signals.
And take it from there, whatever the two of you are comfortable with.

Gentle touching works well.
Playing with her hands and fingers to see how she’ll react.
She’ll give the signal as to wheather or not it should continue.
Take it from there.

I really would like to know how old you are first.

Answer by cjspeanut
I must ask, how old are you? If you are as stupid as I was when I was in high school(12 years ago), let me just say that you might want to think it through before you do something like that. Are you in love? Do you know what that is? On the other hand, if you are on of the few who has saved himself for a decent age to make this kind of decision, then I have to say just let it happen. Lovemaking is a natural animal instinct. Don’t preplan too much or have a set way things should happen in your head – that takes out the element of surprise and fun.

Answer by trustedhacker
Seriously? Okay, the first thing to do is to make sure there’s birthcontrol around, unless you intend on having a child. Don’t make the mistake of thinking “it can’t happen” to you. It can!

Second, take plenty of time to make out with her… you know about oral sex, right? You know, “going down” on her? Do you know how to make her orgasism? Because if you don’t make her enjoy it at least as much as you do, good luck on her wanting to do it very often.

Thirdly, when you are actually ready to start the act…after all the foreplay…when you do to “put it into her”…enter her SLOWLY. DO NOT just shove it in….you push it in fast. That is usually painful to a woman.

Last, when you’re done…hold her. Do not just get up to watch tv or play on the computer or something. If you can, make her orgasism again…with you tongue, your hand, whatever.

good luck…to both of you.

Answer by joseph7_28636
You will figure it out.Thats the fun part.

Answer by ♪MusicLover♪
well if your married then it will be your honeymoon! so i would set the mood, light some candles play some soft romantic music. then just take things slow and easy, give each other a massage, then kiss her neck, nibble her ears, kiss her lips softly and hold her tight, then just relax and take it from there things will flow natrualy. as for what you wear it don’t really matter, because your clothes are only going to come off. have fun and good luck!

Answer by J C
How big is your dong? If is small dont worry if it is to big teke it slow and once she is really wet then party like a rock star. pound her after 10 or 15 minutes, she will love it!

Answer by Knightoflight
First off, you are going to be as nervous as she is, but don’t worry too much!
To turn her on, there are some specific places on a woman’s body that are hyper sensitive for example: her neck, all over her neck, her breasts, and no joke talking dirty is a turn-on.Try and stray away from the “do you like that?” because it’s weird. What else besides yes is she going to say?

Om what you should wear: what you normally do, besides it won’t be on for long!