Sex!!!!!!!?

nellywoowho: Sex!!!!!!!?
I am 19 years old and have been going out with my b/f for almost 2 years and we havnt had sex yet but i think i am ready. He has had sex before and i was just wondering what it would be like i have heard it from all my friends but they make it out to be the most wonderful thing in the world…which is probally is but i want to hear the not so good truth about it like will it hurt..what happens afterwards and all those details that friends dont tell you about!! THANKS!!

Answers and Views:

Answer by reiner7674
well it hurted me a bit and i felt very weird after, but the beautiful part begins the second time

Answer by jessie
ask your mom

Answer by itgoinya
It’s like that finger you’ve been using but bigger !!

Answer by ~*Sweet Pea*~
Yes it does hurt the first time, it will be alittle uncomfortable for you!

Answer by Roger N
First time hurts. Take it slow and make sure everything is moist. If you need lube, use it.
What happens afterwards is all up to the two of you.

Answer by jayfrezzy
If u waited this long then wait until ur married. Do it right ma..

Answer by mcdanieljoanie
girls first times are differt for me it hurt just a little bit but after a few minutes it stated to feel good and i enjoyed it.

Answer by Celi
Go to this site, it has many informations about all you can think of about sex.

People here are very nice and friendly, you can ask questions on forum if what you look for can’t be found on just this site. I hope this helps…

By the way, it hurt me for first time and I bled. I hear some people don’t…anyways, good luck and take care.

Answer by Rabbit
it will hurt at first and when u get into it u wont feel it and when your done u will feel it hurt again for a day or two

Answer by kristy8185
It hurts, but you’ll get over that after a few times…If he really loves you, he continue to talk to you afterwards and it truly is wonderful as long as you love the person and your ready! Hope that help a little!

Answer by Patrick M
Sex is a good thing and an emotional thing. Yes it can be the best, but if not completely 100% ready can be a set back. If you are not ready dont do it. I am a male so i cant speak on any pain you might experience since all women are different. What happens afterward if everything goes well is you’ll cum and feel great.

Answer by boxerboy2212
what do you think happens after sex? if ur doing it safe or the real deal, it all depends. all i can say is that (a) yeah it hurts for a first-timer and (b) ur gonna want to sleep all day the next day. but also, if ur b/f has had sex b4 he should know how to please u and go easy on u. it is a lot of pleasure when u get used to the first 5 minutes- try mastubation first before u do it.

Answer by babyyuuka123
Everybody’s first time is a totally different experience. Some say it hurts, others say it doesn’t. Some bleed, some don’t. Sometimes it can push a couple apart and sometimes it can bring people closer together. U will hear lots of stories from your friends but you can guarantee your first time will be different.
I personally felt awkward with my first time. I didn’t bleed and it didn’t hurt that much, just felt a little uncomfortable.
To make it truly memorable, make sure that nobody else is in the house, put on some nice music and relax.
The more tense you are, the more likely it will hurt.

Answer by sexy singer
unless you have a plan to be together still if you get pregnant than maybe. if you have a baby at 19 there are lots of risks. and you will probably have to drop out of school.

REMEBER!!!!
even if you use some kind of “protection” you still have a good possibility of getting pregnant!!!

Answer by shondak
Well, sometimes your pelvic area hurts from all the bumping and grinding. Sex is over rated, don’t let the movies or your friends fool you. Believe this, though: If it’s with someone special, it makes it 1oo x better! No lie! When you’re comfortable with your guy, its easier to be yourself and not be embarrasses. Sometimes your…pooder makes a “fart” noise, which is too much air inside, depending on the position you’re in. That’s always embarrassing for me. Other then that, be sure to make him touch your clitoris! That’s how you’ll get to that one glorious moment you hear all your girls talk about. Without finishing, it’s just “blah,” but when you cum, it’s like…a little explosion! Honestly, I can’t get my guy to touch it, so I have more fun at home, with my vibrator! It ALWAYS hits the spot! But, on a more serious note, be sure to use protection! STD’s are running rampant and you don’t want something you can’t get rid of! Rap it up!

Answer by ??*LOVE*??
yea, it hurts…
if you are used to wearing tampons, then the pain isn’t as vicious as if you only wear pads. Your vagina will feel a little sore/sensitive afterward, and you can expect some bleeding. It doesn’t hurt for every female, and it may even be the most fulfilling experience you will have.
good luck =)

Answer by Heart-2-Exist
If you’re a virgin, then yes it will hurt because your hymen will tear up & you will bleed. If he’s a big & tall guy like I am 6’8″ or even taller than I am, then you will be in for a “rough journey” because as you probably have known by now height is grown in proportion with other parts of the body, if you know what I mean. It will even be worst if you have a small figure, like under 5’6″.

But that’s not the worst part, the worst part is what if you get pregnant, can you take the responsibility if just in case that the two of you will ever break up. Can you take care of the baby by yourself without the financial supports from the gov’t & your parents? Do you the fact that he’s STD free?

Good luck on your decision & make the wise choice.

Answer by Dan D
Well, to be your first time, you will probably have some pain as it will “brake” your virginity. Hopefully you know what I am talking about, otherwise, don’t even think about having sex until you have done some serious research.

And hope I don’t have to mention about protection, safe sex, pregnancy and STD. Right? Just make sure to be safe; this is for both of you, for your sake and his.

If you two are planning to have a romantic date, and ended it with sex, then the best thing to do is talk about it. Do it in a public place so there is no possibility of ending doing it yet.

Both of you must be comfortable with each other, and I think you do have some issues there or you wouldn’t be asking a million estrangers about it. Tell him what you like, what you don’t, what you are afraid of, and what you expect for that special date to happen. And make sure he tells you the same.

Since he has done it before, he shouldn’t be in a hurry, and I would guess he respects you a lot because he has waited for you two years. There must be good love there.

Make sure you guys do it slow, take your time, make sure to choose a safe place, where nobody can interrupt you, turn off cell phones, make it like there was nobody else in the world but only the two of you.

Don’t make it too serious either, joke around. This will ensure that both can be relaxed, and that if any of you “screw up” something, you two just laugh and try again. Try to keep eye contact, is amazing how much you can read on each other’s eyes.

And also make sure you are ready, both mentally and physically. I think mentally you are almost there (based on your question), physically I mean that you are not in your period, and that once you start making love, you need to make sure he will get you aroused as much as possible, to make it easy to “brake in” so you feel the less pain possible, if any. Foreplay is the key for that.

Afterwards, it will depend on both of you. Guys usually don’t feel like doing anything after, and it is normal. Just kiss slowly, and hold each other, and make sure to talk about it, laugh about it, and tell each other how much you liked it.

Good luck, and have fun!

Answer by seldom seen
I want so much to tell you not to do this, to wait for marriage but I’m sure that you aren’t looking for that so I’ll try to answer what you asked.

Do make sure that you and your b/f can discuss sex, talk about it, talk about birth control and condoms and safey and STDs, because if you don’t feel that you can, then you really aren’t ready to stand naked before him and share your most intimate feelings.

It’s awkward the first time, not perfect and it may take a little effort on both of your parts to make it a good experience. Do make sure that the location is safe, warm, that you won’t be interrupted and that you have plenty of time.

If you have never had an orgasm, don’t expect to have one with him. Boys your age don’t usually know much about female anatomy or how to make you feel comfortable enough to let go and relax. Don’t expect too much in this dept. If, however, you are comfortable with your body, you have had some previous sexual activity with him and you are willing to work with him then you might show him what works for you. You need to remember that you are responsible for your own satisfaction and for your own orgasm. He will make sure that he has one. You can too – if you choose to.

Does it hurt? Always the big question. Most find it does a little. Make sure that you don’t attempt actual intercourse too early in the “activity”. There is much to do here, much to explore. If you are very ready it won’t be too difficult.

And finally, I really wish you would speak to a parent, a trusted adult in your life, or a sister perhaps before you get into bed with this boy. Girls often form a very heavy emotional attachment to the boy they have sex with and rightly so. It isn’t something to be taken lightly. Do consider how you mgiht feel if next week you break up after having shared this with him. If you think that this would make breaking up more hurtful, please reconsider. At your age, this is very likely. And that hurt could be with you for quite a long time.