Sara Kelly: Please help me my female cousin is STALKING me!!!!?
I Need Help Here My Cousin Is Crazy ! PLEASE HELP !?
I know this is off subject and maybe shouldn’t be under “Family” but I can honestly say, and I know I shouldn’t especially after me trying to become a better person but I hate and cant stand my cousin. My cousin Kayla she has put me through hell ! She is so crazy (literally) and obsessed or something over me. I know your probably like yeah right but seriously this chick is nuuuuuts.
She is 21 now and I’m 19 this all started when I was like 15 till now.
Well I held off on getting my G.E.D for like two years, I started working at a gym and started getting interested in guys and lost weight so my confidence level sky rocketed but OOOH BOY Kayla couldn’t stand that I lost weight and she didnt …. even though she does absoutly nothing to lose weight, she is very big. I thought okay maybe she is a little jealous because I lost, I even get like that sometimes I’m like ugh no fair she’s losing weight lol. You know how us girls think. When one of my aunts or uncles (I have 13 on my mom’s side) would give me a compliment she would freak out ! My grandma once said “Ade my gosh where did you come out with such big breasts?!” Kayla cut in and said “Men prefer woman will small boobs” everyone was like … iiiin what world weirdo lol. Right ? Sorry I used that example but it was to show you how, whatever she is. I went through this phase where I absolutely needed a new purse every week – two weeks, I know ridiculous ! Well I’d go show my grandma where Kayla ALWAYS was like she had no life or something ! Well I would show them what I got and Kalya would say something stupid like “People are so stupid buying such expensive stuff its dumb !” but the next time I’d see her, and I swear, she’d have the SAME purse! Eventually we had the same everything same cell phone, cell phone case, our hair was the same, our make up was the same, same slang lol I’m serious down to that !, same color of hair, she started being girly, doing her nails, She cut her hair like mine, dressing different but had to upstage me (I guess you could call in that) by going one extra notch over me. I didn’t get offended, wanted to compete or jealous, I was like hey if you can pull it off and I cant, go for it? I am not a jealous person like that , I’m a big girl I understand there are better looking woman out there! Anyway it just started getting worse! I was with my ex boyfriend eventually moved out when I was 17 to live with him and his cousin and again Kayla flipped, I dont know if because I moved out sooner than her? (I’ve always had more freedom than her) or what was her deal. She started e-mailing my boyfriend telling him I was cheating on him?! I would test her lol saying oh me and my boyfriend (now my ex) are moving and she would say oh me and Jeff (her husband) are moving too. What a psycho right! Well she coincidentally ended up in the same summer college class I was in, bough the same laptop as mine but of course got the better model …. she went ballistic when she found out I started working with Portage/ subcontractor Lanl because she at the time worked here (the labs) but in October got fired but according to her … she left ? She asked me where are you working, who’s your boss, who’s your supervisor, where is your building, what is your building number, your lanl e-mail address, your phone number, and your extension. ALL asked in one text messgae. I texted her for her birthday in Feb to make truce you know well she immediately started asking questions are you still working with Portage? , still with grant, still living with him, where do you guys live, house or apartment, what street, does he have kids, how many, how old are they.. she asked all this in, once again, ONE text message ! A few weeks ago she sent me a friend request on Facebook and I totally ignored it .. wouldnt you?! then a week later she had the nerve to text me three different messages in three minutes begging me to add her ! …..
I need help dealing with her !
What do you think her trip is ? Is she stalking me?! Am I overreacting?
Answers and Views:
Answer by Justinbiebergirl Omg
Hehe you are so funny this just made my day 🙂
just don’t contact her.Answer by Schmoolie
Honestly it doesn’t really sound like stalking. But imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.Answer by Corrina
umm maybe she looks up to you or is intimidated by you
You should have a talk with her & tell her how you feel.
Instead of holding it in… I would be overwhelmed D: if i was you