What is the best way to have an orgasm by masturbation?

Laneybeth I: What is the best way to have an orgasm by masturbation?
I am 16 and haven’t had one yet. I feel left out and any time I feel it coming on I want to stop. How can I get over this so that I will be able to have an orgasm? What are some positions, or movements I can use to make it happen? Does the end of a hairbrush really work? How can I do it in the bath tub?

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Answer by HerHuggyBunny
Everyone can (and everyone deserves to) enjoy the pleasure of orgasm, including everyone who chooses to enjoy it alone instead of (or in addition to) having sex with someone else… and the only “best way” is the one that works best for *you*.

Masturbation is having sex with the only person you’ll ever meet who knows *exactly* what you feel and what you like, even if that changes every second.

One thing you can do to find out is check out these webpages:

Read the pages all the way through, and try some of the things suggested. Take your time (it might take a whole afternoon the first time), and just enjoy learning what feels best for you. Sooner or later, you’ll have an orgasm, and they get better each time if you’re one of those lucky girls who can have them again and again.

An orgasm is all the things you feel and all the things that happen with your body at the peak of sexual arousal and pleasure. It’s a reflex we’re all born with (just like knee jerks and sneezes) that our bodies have in response to sexual stimulation. You will *definitely* know when you have one. There’s nothing else anywhere in human experience that feels that way.

It can take a girl or woman anywhere from a few seconds to a couple of hours to reach orgasm. Both of these are pretty unusual but perfectly normal, and anything in between is just fine… and most can get there in much less than 10 minutes when they masturbate.

Just before orgasm, you might have a feeling a bit like you have to pee, but it’s not quite the same, and when your orgasm first happens, there’ll be a very strong (sometimes intense and *powerful*), warm and sometimes tingly feeling that spreads from your clitoris to your vagina and then through your whole lower body. Then very quickly your clitoris, your vagina, your crotch muscles and your butt-hole will squeeze and pulse a few times while that feeling spreads all over you.

During all this, your heart will beat *very* quickly, your toes will probably curl, you might feel like you need to hold your breath or like you have to breathe really fast, your body will want to tense up and might jerk or shake or shiver, and you might make some noises (grunts, gasps, groans or cries) that you can’t really control. You might “squirt” or “ejaculate” a lot of fluid from your urethra (don’t worry, it’s not pee). The whole time, it’s just about the best feeling there is.

(Everything you “might” feel or do above isn’t always going to happen… some orgasms are much less overwhelming than just *very* pleasureable.)

As that feeling becomes more gentle and starts to go away (after maybe 5 to 20 seconds), your whole body will begin to relax, and you might feel sort of like having a nap… or like just lying there and letting your mind drift.

Have fun with it and don’t worry. Masturbating is normal and healthy, and learning what pleases you sexually is good for you… especially because you’ll know what to tell (better yet, to show) your man about how to please you when you eventually decide you’re ready to have sex.

Answer by Natasha
WOW your 16 and haven’t had one? aha just messing with you: if you have a vibrating toothbrush and you put the head of the toothbrush on your clitoris and move it in a circular motion or just let it sit, you should get off really fast and easily. Second, my favorite, in the shower, if you have a removable shower head just lay down on the floor of the bathtub and let the stream of water hit the clitoris. it feels SO good. Also, if you have a pool go to the water return (like jacuzzi massager) and hold your clit up to that. 😉 have fun

Answer by Hoshi K
Use a dildo that vibrates.

Answer by coleman250
come over to my house

Answer by Geddy Lee = Castrated Elf
Wow, HerHunnyBunny has it figured out.