My family is against abortion and i am considering getting one what to do?

: My family is against abortion and i am considering getting one what to do?
I am planning on making an appointment for an abortion but my family is against abortion. I was going to get the abortion and tell my family i had a miscourage. However, my sister is a sergical tech and is very familiar with hospitals and the things that go on and being she knows so much pertaining to medical things i think she will know i got an abortion.

Answers and Views:

Answer by James B
Your body your choice.

Answer by James
An abortion is killing a child and is against the caothlic faith is you get one you can burn in hell.

Answer by jigfam
I have already answered this question, you are an adult. It is your decision. End of story.

Answer by Diamond~ Itsa Boy!!
its called a miscarriage and what is your question….they probably wont know but they probably will ask you questions and you wont know the answers to them b/c u are lieing. If they are so against abortion why dont u have the baby and let them raise it.

Answer by Due 7/23/210 with little Gemma!
Don’t get one! tell them they can help you raise the baby or you can get it up for adoption! I feel the baby has a right to live! Every time i think about somebody aborting a pregnancy i always thank my lucky stars that i was not aborted, I hope you feel the same! please don’t take the babies life away, give him/her a chance with another family!

Good Luck I hope you decide against it!

Answer by *steph*
you already asked this question but like i said…There is no way anybody will know that you got an abortion, so go ahead and go with it if you want to, because think about it, how would somebody know you got an abortion just by looking at you??? it it impossible!!

Answer by Kunning Linguist
If you are going to kill someone, make sure its a fetus that cant defend itself. That is the only way to go legally speaking. Once a person is born its much more difficult to murder them and get away with it.

Answer by Serena
I wouldn’t be so worried about your family’s feelings as I would about your own. You could regret this choice forever. It’s your choice but I urge you to consider all the reasons you should or should not abort as well as research fetal development, women who have had abortions and what resources are available should you choose to keep your baby.

All the best. 🙂

Answer by Yahoo girl
Hello,

I just want to share with you what the effects of having an abortion are, and what can truly happen. I know, as I have had one. I regret this decision more than anything, and I wish I could go back and undo it. I didn’t listen to my heart, and or what I wanted to do. I let others influence me, and my choice. I want to tell you, please consider all of the aspects before you commit to doing this.

I never thought I would regret it, and or that it would affect my life. It did and still does to this very day. I just recently had to seek help for it, as I couldn’t deal with it anymore. I didn’t realize why my life had kept on turning to a downward spiral for 6 years. I know now it was because of my abortion.

I went into a deep hidden depression. I became angry, bitter, hateful, sad, ashamed, embarassed etc. I literally almost died because of my actions. I truly went through a rough time. And I am still to this day struggling to forgive myself. Abortion to me, won’t fix anything or take anything away, it will only make things worse, and when I say worse, I truly mean worse. Do not by any means let anyone influence you or your decision. Whatever you choose to do, it has to be soley up to you.

I had people tell me that it was nothing but a bunch of cells. Well, that’s not true, it is indeed a child, and it is real. I have done numerous researches on this, and finally learned the truth. The earlier you do it, does not mean the better!

I wish that I could go back and undo what I did. It is truly a regret, and it did not help me or my life. It destroyed me. No matter how angry, upset, irritated people act, or say around you, the decision has to be yours and yours alone. I’m sorry to say that, but it’s true. If you and your husband for whatever reason don’t want another child, maybe you could consider the option of adoption. That’s what I wanted, but my bf at the time left me no choice. He wasn’t for adoption and we were in no place to raise a baby, and I tried to go for adoption, and in the end, I let others infuence me, and I hate myself for it. You can’t listen to other people. You have to follow your heart.

I am not going to tell you what to do one way or the other, I am just trying to let you know what happens on the other side. Please take the time and consider these things. Abortion is real, and the group I’m in for help, we’ve all had abortions and every one of us regrets our decisions.

My guilt and that didn’t come out to a head until years later, and the turmoil hell that I went through, well, lets just say I could have prevented it. I wish more than anything I could have given my baby up for adoption. And that talk about it just being a bunch of cells, no! Don’t believe that. Ask any doctor. It’s not true. The baby’s do feel pain, and my baby had a heart beat when he or she passed. I didn’t know, and I am deeply angry for being uneducated.

Just thought I’d share, I’d hate to see another woman go through what I have been through. It’s not worth it. I live sure, but my life will never be the same, and I will never forget my baby!

Answer by Jenny
i WAS totally for abortion because i believe in peoples rights and i still do.
however i now wish that abortion never existed and that it would never be an option for pregnant people.

i was in an abortion clinic at 17 weeks and was completely detached from the idea of being pregnant cus i was gonna get rid of the baby, so that happy pregnat feeling never sank in like it should have.
the nurse tells me that they cant perform the procedure cus my baby was far too developed. she said i had to fly to LA from a nearby town to a highrisk pregnancy abortion clinic to do the job.
iwas only 18. there bwas no way my parents wouldnt find out.
the feeling i got right after was fear. fear of actually being pregnant and having to tell my family. it was so real i could almost touch it in the air. i told the nurse i was just gonna keep the baby and went home.

months later i had baby girl.
omg, that feeling was actual instant LOVE!
i. like you, was gonna get an abortion, but only when i had my baby did i see the horrific mistake i could have done.

please dont do it.
i speak for everyone considering it, please dont.

having a baby isnt painless, i know, but the pain you will have to carry with u will last forever and it will be much worse, i promise.