why is sex or masturbation considered bad which could not be discussed openly with others?

parth c: why is sex or masturbation considered bad which could not be discussed openly with others?
if its good than why don’t we share that easily with others and also feel shy to disclose it to others. whats bad in sex or masturbation that we don’t feel to disclose it to someone?
if its good than why do we fear to do it in public and don’t tell to others that we did it?

Answers and Views:

Answer by wtptoo
I don’t think it is bad. It’s just religion and churches that have forced people to be afraid to discuss sexuality.

Answer by jean marc l
well i cant see anything wrong with it

Answer by The Snappy Miss Pippi Von Trapp
Because some things should be kept private.

Not because they’re bad, but merely because there’s no pressing need to yammer about what you do behind closed doors.

There’s also the issue of etiquette to consider. Specifically, even though you don’t have any problem with the idea of talking about blatant sexual matters in public, someone within earshot of you may find it distasteful to listen to.

Etiquette and/or manners may strike you as being “old fashioned,” but they’ve served humanity quite well for centuries. There’s nothing wrong with a sense of propriety and self-restraint — otherwise, we’d have people just fornicating in public everywhere.

Answer by TRIC1984
I think its fine Im open minded.
but that’s me,so only talk about it to people that you know feel the same regarding sexuality…

except when my mum pounds on my door incessantly..then I tell her to go away cause Im masturbating,she always gets all horrified an walks off XD

Answer by snapshot26
I talk about it with my mates. They tell me stuff about it too, i think its just prudes that don’t.

As i always say, we know it goes on and everybody does it, so why hide it?

Answer by ¬¬, ok…
i dont think theres anything wrong with it but some people are judgemental and what i do is just none of their business
but if someone wants to share experiences and talk about sex im all for it

Answer by Clint
Eh, it’s religious hangups that go back to the time when we didn’t understand the mechanics of reproduction. Back then, people thought that semen had little human souls in it. You can understand how they thought of that, with no knowledge to go on, but there’s no excuse today.

So, happy jacking, parth!

Answer by Reef
No one talks about such things because no one wants to hear it. And anyone who does want to hear it is weird.

Answer by frogman
When a guy or a girl starts telling me about their masturbation frustrations I always offer a helping hand.

Answer by MSU69
Americans seem to be hung up on the topic of masturbation. One of most widely practice forms of sexual outlet. Yet in the 21st. century boys still hear and see the myths of masturbation. Here in this site and men’s heath.

Still hear that jacking off makes one go blind, insane, grow hair on ones palms and even make one gay.

Answer by Ron again
I’ll talk about it when ever I can.Damn masturbation is that why I’m loosing my hair and wear glass I don’t have hair on the pawms of my hands tho..

Answer by Thomas
people are scared of what others might think if they say this out loud. it is also a very easy subject to hurt other people if you express your views in the wrong way

Answer by conor r
do you know what,i think people are kinda scared to talk about it because when you masterbate its just urself and its ur time and private,i dont wanna go around a freinds and just randomly say “yehh i had a great wank last night,did you?” i think religion does have an effect on those who follow it but its natural its even found to be healthy to do it every now and then,theres always the aspect of a teen thinking oh no what if my mum/dad finds out.

Answer by Christopher
you should not have sex intil your marriad thats why

Answer by Dopey
It’s not considerd bad every where infact its quite open in some parts of Europe

Answer by Counsellor Oneil
There has been misconception about masturbation for years. But I do not think sex and Masturbation can be discussed in public , it is a private act and should be limited to personal discussions only.

Answer by His gal 🙂
Masturbation is a topic I am not necessarily comfortable discussing mainly because I think it is more a private and personal kind of thing.

Sex on the other hand is something i’m pretty open about with my peers.

Answer by mike hunt
i jerked off in class this week and came all over my journal assignment..my teacher came over and licked it up for me. i’m pretty open with it.

Answer by Bryan
There is nothing bad or unnatural about any of those things. It’s just something very personal and should be discussed with people you trust (adults like parents or maybe a health care professional) in a mature and safe environment.