marriage ?

tily131225: marriage ?
do you like life before or after marriage, have you or your partner changed due to marriage or has it made life better

Answers and Views:

Answer by primrose
This all depends on the people involved, everyone is different, me.. I hated marriage.. it changed me as a person.. lost all my friends..just a zombie.. but my partner changed in2 a control freak..kept his friends..now happily divorced…

Answer by Magik
Life after marriage. Of course we’ve changed. We changed together and are a better couple as time goes on.

Answer by Sandy Ego
Our life is better after marriage – but only because people stopped asking us when we were getting married! Between us, things are as good after marriage as they were before. Neither of us has changed, but then again, we’ve only been together for 3 years, so give us time I guess…

Answer by mynxr
Good question. Financially, I was much better off before I got married. My husband has been unemployed for three years, we have no savings and live off my social security disability and my inheritance that my father gives us. So the money my Mom and father worked so hard to save so that I would be set for life is wasting away. Am I happy, yes, most days. While he was employed, I was happier married and life was much better being married. Since he’s been unemployed, I was better off and happier single. I took my wedding vows seriously and believe in till death do we part so I’m in it for the long hall regardless of what life deals us.

Answer by SAYDE
My experience is before marriage my husband was a fun loving guy, after we were married he was a totally different person, its like I thought I really knew him, he was suddendly more serious, less fun, after 20 years we are divorced.

Answer by Nat
I loved my life before I got married. If I had to do it again, I would not get married. My husband and I are great together but, I think we were better when we were just dating. He is very demanding (OCD) and it’s really put a strain on our marriage. If we were dating , I could just go home and be done with it!

Answer by Mr Pibb
The only problem I have with marriage is that it’s really easy to let the sex get boring, and that in turn pushes to reconsider the life-long choice you made.

Answer by C-DOGG
Everything changes, relationships change no matter if you are married or not.