drive me crazy!!!: Marriage!!!!!!!!!!!!?
What would you prefer between arranged marriage and love marriage????
Answers and Views:
Answer by maxxo
LOVE!! And only Love Marriage.
i prefer love marriage.Answer by cutekitten
love marriage is the only way to go! being arranged is almost forcing you into trying to fall in love with that person.Answer by Kristiane-Cubical ninja
I don’t trust my mother to pick out a shirt for me. I love her but she would never pick anything I would. I can’t fathom how she could pick my husband for me.
Additionally, I picked my own husband and am quite happy (and madly in love) with my choice.
Answer by njoyablLove of course, why would you want to be married to a complete stranger?Answer by GOING NUTS
LOVEAnswer by COROLLA
love n nothing else …its not possible for a person to bond wid a strangerAnswer by lonezuki509
I have never really thought of it but I guess I would prefer the “love” marriage.
I guess with an open mind and probably because I am a guy, I can see the value of an arranged marriage. You don’t have to go thru the courting, etc. Its all taken care of for you. The problem is women marry for love. Guys do too but honestly its a stressful thing. Why wouldn’tao guy say ok?
You see it in movies all the time, women upset because they are promised to a guy they barely know, etc. blah, blah, blah. Being married is great but if I lived in a third world country honestly I don’t think I would have much of a problem with it.
Answer by Rose S.They are two different things obviously.
Arranged marriage means you don’t know the person and you know that you have to spend your life together so you are forced to work things out. You get to start your marriage at a point where you don’t know eachother and its all exciting and you get to learn and go through all of the great stages of dating in the marriage. I believe that makes the marriage stronger. I married out of love but it was early. We only knew eachother a year. I think it is working out great. Well, we do have God in our relationship as well so that helps tremendously.
Love marriage means that you married because you chose to and you can also chose to get out of it making it more likely that you are going to get out of it. You most likely already went through all of the great stages and know eachother pretty well or else you wouldn’t have married the person. The problem is, people change all of the time. You are going to marry somebody you thought you knew and find out things you don’t like and instead of making it work you are going to go find somebody else. I really think arranged marriages have a lesser chance of divorce but in the world we are living in people don’t care about marriage they only care about being happy. That’s how we are raised to think that marriage is supposed to be a fairy tale and we get really dissapointed when it isn’t. The reason for the extremely high divorce rate which turned into people just not getting married and dating. God gave us marriage to be together forever. Marriage isn’t for God anymore. It’s for ourselves. If you are going to get married, have God in there with you. It gives it more purpose. God bless you.
Answer by Bladen.j.loveAnswer by Amt
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