samantha: He jokes about implants – What does that mean?
My fiance and I have been together for awhile now and just got engaged. I’ve had a lot of body issues over the past few years that has required me to be on the pill– I’ve switched pills many times because of my problems, and each pill shrinks or enlarges my breasts. One evening his mom suggested I get breast implants (I’m a 32B) and since, the topic has come up a handful of times. At first I was intrigued by the idea but somehow my fiance took off with this “idea” and talks about it like it’s going to happen, like he wants it to happen, and it’s beginning to make me feel like he doesn’t appreciate my breasts for how they are now. I started to tell him that he should like my body as it is. When I do, he tells me that he does, but that it’s obvious that I “would feel more secure with implants.” Is it me, or does it sound like he really doesn’t like my body as is?
Answers and Views:
Answer by Lucie
all i can say is guys like boobs. yeah he may want them to be bigger but he still is happy with your body. he doesnt want you to change it
Maybe he just wants you to be happy. I’m sure he loves you just the way you are and if you were to change he will still love you no matter what. My friend is getting implants next week… everyone keeps telling her she doesn’t need to and shes okay how she is. However, I support her because if it will make her feel more secure about herself then go ahead, but be warned then you may just find another flaw and harp on it. Or maybe if you want to be bigger just sometimes buy the miraculous bra from Victoria secrets it does wonders for smaller breast girls and girls with large ones too!Answer by sh00t
His mom is a rude b!tch that needs to keep her mouth shut. Love your body and screw the haters.Answer by Anne
sorry but he is a jerk and an insesitive one at that. how would he feel if you told him he would feel “more confident” with a penis enlargement?
everyone is different. personally i would prefer smaller breasts myself, like my sister has. she is 54 now and her breasts are still perky and firm. you should only do what YOU want to do. as you are, when you are 45 you can still run around in little tops braless which is something a lot of women would love to be able to do. as we age our skin sags and there is not much worse than saggy boobs.
but if you decide to get implants, dont do it for him. do it for yourself.
i think he is probably not trying to be cruel, but the comments have been made and im sure this is not the last time you will hear this. i think he is either-a) trying to boost your confidence or b)he really wants you to look different.
if its A then ok its a bit of a brutal way to say it but meant well. if its B then i would have serious talks about it before you go any further with him. if he reaLLY DOESNT ENJOY YOU THE WAY YOU ARE NOW, THEN FOR SURE IN 10 YEARS IT WILL ONLY GET WORSE.
SORRY IF I HAVE SEEMED OUT OF ORDER. THIS IS A SENSITIVE SUBJECT AND I HOPE YOU CAN RESOLVE IT AMICABLY. GOOD LUCK.
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