Christine: Is there any way to train your clitoris to be less sensitive to touch?
My clitoris is so sensitive you can’t even touch it directly. Consequently, when oral is being preformed on me, it hurts and is unpleasant. I can’t orgasm with anyone other than myself, and it makes intimacy sort of disappointing for my boyfriend, who wants to make me orgasm so bad, but can’t, because he doesn’t know the right places to touch. I’ve tried leading his hand and everything, but it’s hard NOT to hurt me because I’m so sensitive. Are there any techniques for solving this problem?
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Answer by Q
Get a vibrator and use it in masturbation. It will ultimately make you less sensitive (temporarily)
There are some numbing gels you can buy at sex stores, but no, you can’t “train” it to be less sensitive.
I have the same ‘problem’ (am now 42), and I just tell the guys to keep away from it. I tell them flat out it is not pleasurable and is borderline painful and if they want to kill the mood, they will disregard my instruction.
I do feel a twinge of guilt about all the women out there whose fellows won’t perform orally on them when I have to tell those who do no!
Your body, your decisions. As long as you please them and let them know they *are* pleasuring you in other ways, it’ll be fine.Answer by ♫♪♫ Moem ♀
No.It’s probably easier to train your boyfriend to be more sensitive to your needs.
But you can also try having him use a dental dam so he doesn’t touch your clitoris directly.
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