im scared to “make love” am i weird?

Jane: im scared to “make love” am i weird?
im in my 20 and i dont date. i dont think about sex that much and i think it would mean more if i loved the person i did it with the first time.

is it normal to be scared about being too attached and being clingy after.

Answers and Views:

Answer by John Wright
If your purity is still intact, keep it that way until ‘Mr Wright’ comes along. After/when you are married the best gift you can give him will be your virginity. Don’t be ashamed of it girl. Be PROUD. You can only ever give it to one man in your entire lifetime.

Answer by Kf
that is normal,every girls will scare for the first time…

Answer by London
I’m exactly like that! Well, i’m not scared about being clingy, not whatsoever. But I don’t want to even date someone who I don’t care deeply about, and I don’t want to do them until i’m married to them. I don’t want to run around acting like Ke$ ha.

Answer by Amber
absolutely not. there are alot of people out there that are like this. im the same way exept about the sex. its constantly on my mind and in my actions;] anyways. i dont like dating and im sure you dont for the same reason. your scared of falling for someone. because when you open yourself up to them, you give them everything you have, basically all of you. and your scared shitless of the fact that they can control your feelings. sounds like your a sensitive person who already knows that if you become heartbroken the pain is unbearable and your just trying to prevent it from happening. just wait, you will meet your litte romeo/juliet one day C:

Answer by Jessica
Your not weird at all lol everyone has different expectations when it comes to losing their virginity. What I feel is that your Not ready. A person who truly wants to have sex will often think about it and want to experience it. Your body,in addition to your mind will feel ready. Sex is amazing and even better when you whole heartedly have feelings towards the guy. Unfortunately, dating is the only way we can find our significant other, tell if he’s worth the relationship and continue from there. I myself find dating akward,but hey, you gotta do what you gotta do.

Good luck girl!

Answer by loveboy
Not at all.

Answer by James K
Awww very sweet and totally natural….just take things slow and use your mind as well as your heart.