For ignorant ppl who think teen moms are horrible?

: For ignorant ppl who think teen moms are horrible?
Ok let me help correct you ignorent ppl who think that us teen moms think its fun to have baby. Ok so I got prego on BIRTHCONTROLso I did use protection! I decide to keep my baby and not kill being I decide to have sex. So heres my story about how I “THOUGHT GETTING PREGO WAS EASY”…. well I found out around february sometime when I found out I was really scared my mom was a drug addict in my dad never help me with anything he was never there forme mymom tried butshe was too addicted to her drug my daughter’s fatherwant to be there but he never actually so whenI was about 6 months pregnant my motherpassed awayof an overdose so then me and my daughter’s father broke up so that basically leftme alone todoitallonmyown thatleft me about 7 months pregnantso I hadtogeta job tosave moneytoraisemy baby the day my daughterwas born I hadjust got my first apartment so that happen right on time from there on I did it all on my own now I have another baby he is 9 months old his father is in his life so now we’re working together to raise are 2 kids but for the first year of my daughter’s life I did all of my own. THANK YOU FOR JUDGING US GREAT TEEN MOMS WE PROLLYDO BETTER THENYOU GROWN MOMS!

Ps: Iam only 20 and own my own HOUSE and CAR did you at age 20 without mommy and daddys help?
Ok well sorry to tell you but I am not lieing my spelling isnt bad I have a iphone so it spells alot wrong I am a dentist and make alot of money so I have money to own my home and for the other one who said I should place my kids for adoption yeah I wouldnt care if I was 13 I would not placed my kids for adoption it’s not their fault I decided to have sex I am not going to walk out on them!
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If you dont belive me go to my facebook ! Iam not a troll I have money because me and my husband work dam hard.

Answers and Views:

Answer by Hello Friend
Ok prolly.

Answer by chantal
Aww keep it up youre a strong woman! haters will hate, they have nothing better to do. best of luck to you 🙂 x

Answer by Pingu

Answer by Not 2 Young 2 Love
Ur a strong woman 🙂 Congratz, be the mom you wish you had.

Answer by Joel
I would usually feel sympathy for teen moms but I after reading this I don’t anymore. First of all calm down, I don’t see why your mad, I get criticized badly everyday I don’t go around screaming to random people. Secondly, using protection doesn’t make you a responsible teen at all, you shouldn’t even be having sex….. period. And lastly, bragging about what you overcome doesn’t prove you point any more. I find this hard to believe just by reading the way you type. You sound more like a 15 year old, I doubt you have your own house, buying a house is a huge investment and a young person such as yourself is unable to make that leap.

Answer by RuthAnn
U R one of the responsible young moms, but there are a whole lot of teen mothers who are not responsible and they are allowing taxpayers to take up the slack of raising their kids. If all teen moms did what U did, there would be few issues with social teen pregnancies. U were a hard working individual, but surely U realize that a lot of teens are not. They survive because of food stamps and government subsidized housing and free medical care. Which is provided for by ordinary working stiffs like my husband and myself.. I am glad for U that there is now a partner to help U. Maybe someday U can create a school program that will help educate other girls ( and guys ) sot that they do not have to suffer what U did. Good luck in the future. U R different than a lot of other women because U took care of yourself and your offspring. Not everyone does that.

Answer by MelC
Congrats ou did it but you also sound very bitter. It may have worked out for you and you may have not thought it would be fun but that’s not the usual. Also may I add that most people wouldve assumed listening to your story that would’ve been a teen mom troubled teens usually are and yes you were on birth control but you obviously miss used it. You shouldve adopted the baby out but you didn’t and it worked out again congrats but don’t consider yourself one of the teen moms people talk crap about unless you think you fit into the category of crappy teen moms.

Answer by Oh
Why are you complaining, that’s PROBABLY** why people think your whole group is horrible. I’ve never even had a thought as such cross my mind, but after seeing this, hm. Also, if you were to have that money and have a house and such, what reason should you have to complain in the first place. Rubbing it in to people like this or taking out your anger in such a way proves only immaturity and irresponsibility.

P.s. you forgot to put spaces between your words. Ignorant* Pregnant* here’s* Probably* daddy’s*

Edit: lying* Doesn’t iphone have auto correct? You also forgot your punctuation. Still does not give you any right to be complaining. Still immature and irresponsible. Never said you didn’t have the money either. Your ranting only makes you look more desperate and incoherant.

Answer by Leela
Good on you! Stay proud, you’re a good mom! Though I found this very hard to understand so you might be trolling but either way there are plenty of great teen moms out there like you.

Answer by SoBox
Cell phones do not cause users to have absolutely no grasp on the English language. I’m on my phone, yet I can construct a sentence.
You are not a dentist, dear. You are only humiliating yourself when you fabricate such silly stories.
Fortunately, your babies are most likely as fake aS your career and house. Young girls seem to enjoy making up fake baby stories on this site. Run along, now.

*ETA* You claim to be a dentist who makes “a lot (sic) of money,” yet you say in another question that you’re on food stamps. index;_ylt=AhaIPvCbMp2m_rdn5nX58RPsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20120228140152AA7gbmf
“my husband is 26 we receive medicaid and food stamps…”
Nice try, dear.

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Answer by Micahs•Mummy
This is more of a rant than a questions. Yes, your spelling and grammar is terrible. If you know you are such a great mum then why do you get upset what people insult teen mums and I doubt you are 20 and a dentist.
Also, you’re not a teen mum anymore. You’re 20.

Answer by MS
Teen mothers are not “horrible.” They are unfortunate. They become mothers before they have had a chance to get a decent, post-high school education, they miss out on experiences that really do help shape and mature a woman, and they make mistakes–lots of them. Fortunately, children are fairly resilient so the mistakes are not fatal to the children, but they are not optimal either. A well educated, well rounded mother in a stable (as opposed to a “He knocked me up so I am stuck with him”) relationship who has had a chance to live and experience life makes a better mother. Someone who hasn’t had those experiences can do a good job, too, but they’d do a better job with more experience in their background.

Why would you be defending teen mothers if you didn’t believe, yourself, that there was something less than ideal about being one? It wouldn’t even be an issue that crossed your mind.