If you “fall in love” does that mean you could had prevented it?

Knight Rose’s apprentice: If you “fall in love” does that mean you could had prevented it?
So if you would had watched out more carefully would you had been able to prevent yourself to fall into the love thing?

Just want to ask a silly question.

Answers and Views:

Answer by dr.#
yeah of course it depends on his or her personality if he or she made an action that is under stood incorrectly because of different cultures it could of messed up everything.

Answer by Wondering
actually you are correct, because in any popular sence of love you “fall” into it.I hate questions like this because they make me think to much, but yes if you could see love puddles yo can avoid falling in them in theory

Answer by sarah
in my opinion falling in love isn’t something you choose but if she/he doesn’t love you back they aren’t worth your time and im sure you could do better

Answer by Megan
Yes and no. I’ll admit, I could fall in love if I allowed myself to, but there are instances where you just can’t help but love a person for who they are. One can also find out they are pregnant, and don’t automatically love their seed or situation, but love grows. It varies with people.

Answer by Sam
Gravity works.

It’s a paradox: if you were clairvoyant of it before hand and prevented it then it wouldn’t have happened and you would have never thought to prevent it.

–Sam

Answer by jeannie kathleen@
And to fall out of love too, it seems.

This could have been prevented on the first place,
Without falling in love..

Ouch!

Answer by Einstein
Duh! If you fall in love, you are way past preventing it.

Answer by ideal
No, you couldn’t, because from genetics point of view, in your DNA is encrypted everything you are predisposed to, so if at a certain age you are inclined to “fall in love” you will. “Falling in love” I think is more linked to people’s need to love and be loved, so if that’s what you have to do, that’s what you will do, and who you fall in love with may or may not be on the same road or at a crossroad.
Ask yourself what is love? Is it just a state of mind? Releasing endorphins, serotonin and other alike hormones in order to fulfill a need of our DNA.
If one has the gene that shows his predisposition for diabetes, he also has the gene that makes him enjoy sweets. Knowing that, you can avoid sweets, but it is frustrating, and for how long will you be able to resist the temptation?So maybe yes, you could of prevented it, but the next choice might not be more suitable because you resisted long enough, you’ll just “fall deeper”.
In spite of this cold view over falling in love, it is a wonderful feeling, and if the other one feels the same means you can be happy together.

Answer by te144
I think I did, purposefully, to avoid it. A girl who would become our state’s representative at Miss America was receptive to a relationship.
She liked me a lot but we would go to widely distanced schools and I made no effort to preserve the potential union as I saw no future in it. It would be 8 years before I would get married. I’m pretty sure she has landed a better catch than me anyway,

Answer by P’quaint!
For some ‘falling in love’ is second nature….they only have to see an attractive person and they jump right in the love-puddle…mess themselves and crawl back…

Others are more careful. They think and think of all consequences before taking the plunge…they are the ones who fall deep…never to come up.

Then there are a rare few who never ‘fall’…and if ever they are tempted, they won’t admit it even to themselves…

Just a silly answer :))

Answer by Soundgardener80
I actually think theres truth in that…once when it happened to me I sensed i was starting to feel loved up and sort of remember a make or break period where i thought ‘Slow down, chill out and distract yourself and take her lightly and you wont mess yourself up’

I didnt follow my own advice but wish i did as we werent compatible enough and i knew it. I really do think that often there is a grey zone where you can still think clearly enough to consider your emotions relating to the other person in a more scientific, logical way if you want to avoid the idealistic blind worship of another human being that is imo most often the case with romantic love

Answer by Steven
You can hide and shut yourself off from people and therefore avoid it but if you are open you won’t be able to help it when you fall in love.

Answer by Laurentiu
only living alone on a desert island

Answer by Billie 611B
I would like to see anyone try not falling in love – when you see someone and that old chemistry thing hits your insides, you don’t stand a cats chance of hell of not falling for that person – and if your lucky enough for them to have that sudden in love thing happen at the same time ……

Well Oh my Lordie ……. what fun.

Answer by Source
Anything can be prevented with prior knowing. But if the person didn’t see it coming, of course he/she couldn’t have prevented it.

Since it’s possible to see beforehand falling in love, in reality it can be prevented, but that it’s possible doesn’t mean people can forsee it which is why many fall in love. But it’s a good thing to fall in love if it pays off.

Likewise, its possible to “rise out of love” if one knows how to, but to the one who doesn’t know why or how, then it seems as if its something the person has no control over. But this is not a good thing if the love is paying off.