How do men view sex and love differently?

anonymous: How do men view sex and love differently?
I know that so many women like myself link sex and love which I personally did and that is a mistake. I mean I love sex but I get so attached and end up having my heart broken. Guys dont want a relationship with me, just sex but I dont want to get my heart broken again. I want to view sex as just sex and have fun, as men do. Is there any way that I can do this? Or will the emotional side always be there?

Answers and Views:

Answer by usuck91
You are a woman and that’s part of the female human being. Just don’t have sex with anybody until you are sure they are the ones. And even then, they make think they are ready for commitment and they won’t lie but that will change later….

Answer by BabeHeart
Sex is a pleasurable physical act. It does not equate to love.

Love is a chemical reaction in the brain that triggers a strong positive feeling toward someone.

You may or may not have sex with someone you love (are in love with), and you can have sex with someone and not feel any love toward them at all.

Sex when in love is more pleasurable (at least to me) because the emotional attachment heightens the intimacy and pleasurable feeling…however, that doesn’t make sex outside of love unpleasant. It can often be quite fun as well. ☺♥☻

Answer by ariel s
I have been where you are at. If you really want to view sex as a guy does, NEVER have feelings for someone you have sex with. Emotions complicate sex for a woman, whereas men just see the physical pleasure in it. Just tell yourself that you are not in a relationship and this will never turn into one, but you’re going to have sex for a fun time. No expectations and you won’t get hurt.

But why would you want to have meaningless sex. Trust me, you will begin to feel used and depressed from it. The only good sex is with someone you have feelings for. Draw a line and live above it. Good luck 🙂

Answer by Jor Hugh Jazz
The solution is not to be a dog like the men who just wants sex. You are an emotional creature, accept it and take nothing less than what you feel you deserve. You’ve been hurt because there is sometihng about the men in the past that you keep looking for. Figure out what about them that caught your interest.

Believe it nor not, not all men are dogs. If you want a realtionship then look for a man who wants the same – just don’t look in the same places where you’ve found those other guys.