Gr8fl: I said “I think I’m falling in love” too soon…now what?
Me and my lady friend have been dating for about two weeks, but have had class w/ each other for about 4 mos. After intimacy (yeah, I know…) in a warm embrace I uttered “I think I’m falling in love with you…” really meaning to say “I’m falling for you ” or maybe use “infatuated.” But nonetheless, the L-word slipped out…oops! I got no verbal reply, but at the time my feeling was “oh well I just spoke my mind.” We’re not going to be able to see each other for a couple/few weeks because we’re both out of town. I now fear that she is lamenting my comment as I am. We haven’t spoke for a couple days…what is the best way to address the issue with her?
Answers and Views:
Answer by Jade
Just do it. Just say what you think. It’s easier than you think. Tell her you said something that sort of slipped out, and you fear it has scared her away. Just tell her in a way that leaves the future feelings open. Be up front. I’ve always found that refreshing.
just continue talking to her.. act as if nothing happened.. and if you think she’s still falling away then confront her and tell her that you really really love her and that you’re so scared to lose her. but be sure to say those lines in a romatic and dramatic way.. surely enough she will see the sincerity in your words… hope it work bro, goodluck!
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