How can you be sure your husband is “making love” with you versus just having sex. My husband and i have been?

blossom: How can you be sure your husband is “making love” with you versus just having sex. My husband and i have been?
my husband and i have been married 9 months, but together 5 years. We did not live together until we were married. I have been married once before and just am so afraid that one day my husband will just always just having lustful sex with me instead of the “romantic” making love session. I don’t expect every time to be all romance and stuff and i do know that those really lustful times are all apart of a great relationship regarding this issue. I just don’t want him to just find himself being sexually with me always “just to get his rocks off” if you know what i mean. So far, things have been a nice balance….how will i know if this changes for him and all the intimate romance is gone.
Any advice anyone!!

Answers and Views:

Answer by Lasheequa
Who cares, as long as it’s good.

Answer by Luke
No such thing. I’ll have sex with someone I’m in love with but I’m not making love to anyone. Seriously, how can someone orgasm by going slow and soft. I’m sorry but I need a good Hardcore fcuk to be satisfied.

Answer by jason
Do not get fat and lazy.

Answer by Da Spicy Meat a Ball
you can’t

Answer by Mikey
In about a year you won’t be getting any at all , so who cares .

Answer by Nox
You can tell the difference during the act. And if you can’t, then perhaps you need to see a sexual health psychologist.

Answer by jamshid q
You will see on time line. But you know after a while if you guys respect each other the sex wont be the important stuff, and tell you the truth that it changes you wanted or not after a while. I was married 3 years already the first thing I love my wife and respect her and sex is not the same as was at the beginning but I still love it. Yes and very important thing you guys have to talk more about each others want’s on this mater.

Answer by Latin G
ummm… well, I bang my mistress if i just want to get my rocks off… wait… that’s why I bang my wife too… hummmm.. that’s a tough one

Answer by maybe………
you’ve got a good balance going – you obviously are doing something!
you’re still newly-weds at nine months! relax and enjoy your life without borrowing worries!