Chris(:: How to tell my parents I want to get a girlfriend?
I am 15 and my parents told me not to get a girlfriend (because there trouble) Which of course in my opinion, they arent.
I really like a girl and I want to go out but i dont want my parents to “ground” me over something like this or throw a fit.
What should I do, how should I tell them?
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Answer by yasmin o
oh my god tell them off say i want a girlfriend dam whats your problem convince them maybe they’ll say yes! or be sneaky without them knowing lol
welll first of all….yeah they are trouble, drama drama drama
but anyways, you have to just tell your parents how you feel and keep them in the loop. if you don’t then you’ll have your new gf drama and your parents will be mad.
Answer by ~della ducky~umm dnt tell em just go behind their backsAnswer by Sammy
tell them ur not five and think they should back off a little bit and let you have a gf. they cant keep you from that. or pull a guilt trip on them saying that their depriving you of social needs, lolAnswer by Michael
Tell them that you are old enough to make your own decisions and to lead your own life. Prove to them them that you are mature and responsible enough for a relationship.Answer by Sam J
when you become independent and able take full care of yourself, go ask them. You are 15 which I think is still a bit early. Unless you are a king or something or son of some rich man.
just relax and build yourself in the meanwhile . When you are able to gain people’s trust and respect, and you are able to be independent, you can go for it; at that time , you are ready to spread yoru wings.
When I was your age, I used to work hard on everything; I’m now about 5 years older than you,but i’m now happy about it,because I don’t have to depend now on anybody. and no body now controls me. I do everything by my own. I can go now and find good jobs,but I’m taking advantage of the time to get a bachelor degree with less pressure. In my culture, it is obligatory on parents.
You know you became strong when you have strong influence over people when it comes to work.
the only problem I have with my paretns is that I can’t bring anyone to see them,because My mom is always sick (She is crazy) ; my father is a big disaster. My relatives are also controlling and abusive. That’s why I told my girlfriend that I’m ready to speak to her parents anytime as long as they won’t feel bad about it until I leave my parents house, so I don’t want to be too harsh on them too. They doesn’t mind at all , my father always speaking about getting me engaged on homeland, but I ignore it ,because people are not items. I told my mom,and she said do whatever you want,but she doesn’t want to see anyone ,because she is sick. I can get my girlfriend to talk to my elder sister.
Answer by Solita AyaneJust tell them outright, but be respectful. Or, be a sneaky sneak. =X
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