How should I punish my fiancee so she will not feel guilty anymore for doing something bad?

Sandstorm222: How should I punish my fiancee so she will not feel guilty anymore for doing something bad?
My fiancee will sometimes cut herself to feel like she has been punished for doing something wrong and then she will feel better. How can I punish her so she will feel like she has atoned for her mistakes and feel better? I don’t want to leave bruises so nothing like punching her. Thanks for the advice. I really want to stop this cutting.

Answers and Views:

Answer by Brooke S
Have her so see a doctor or something, that’s all I could think of to say.

Answer by =)
stopping this cutting isnt going to work by you punishing her.that is really just going to make it worse..
how about you bring her to the doctor and get her some help!

Answer by ash
wtf? send her to rehab & why would you want to punish her. what you need to do is comfort her and tell her she doesnt need to be punished her fate is in Gods hands. mistakes are mistakes. punishment is on judgement day. thats when you’ll know…

anyways… send her to rehab.. she’ll stop cutting… you’ll be happy… no more punishing… then u marry and live happily ever after .
yay

Answer by Anja H
She needs professional help

Answer by wannaknow
You punishing her won’t make her feel any better! It would more than likely make her feeel worse! Get her some professional help!

Answer by Legandivori
GET HER INTO PSYCHIATRY IN A HOSPITAL> SHE HAS SERIOUS PRBLEMS!

Answer by ILoveKeyLimePie
You BOTH need to see a doctor and get some therapy.

Seriously.