How important is sex to you in a relationship?

Pure_Nirvana: How important is sex to you in a relationship?
If you had a real hot gf or bf,but he/she wasn’t very good at sexual things,would you leave that person because of it? How important is sex to you in a relationship?

Answers and Views:

Answer by James!!!
I’ll tell her how important it is to me.
If she aint good at it, well we could practice! lol =P

Answer by Don’t Talk To Strangers
that’s the main reason I broke it off with my ex, lousy lay 2 min man

Answer by Ali
I’m a virgin so not very important if your my age

Answer by Maui Guy
Inexperience is an opportunity of getting it how you want it…

Answer by Liam ^_^.
Would I leave her? Not at all, I mean even if she wasn’t ‘very good’, then practise makes perfect eh? Would just bring more fun.

Personally, on a scale of 1-10, sex too me would be 5 in a relationship. I mean its good, but its nothing I couldn’t go without if my partner barely wanted sex or wanted to wait for sex.

Answer by Berrygirl
Sex is a huge aspect in a relationship and a bad sex life is not healthy for the relationship.
If I love a person and had issues with the sex part, I’d probably try therapy or something. Otherwise, I’d probably end it.

Answer by HunnyBunny
to me its really important.. people might think im crazy or shallow but i dont care. how am i suppose to be with someone for a long relationship if the sex isnt good at all. i would die.

Answer by Barry McCockiner
Yes I would leave her… that is if I couldn’t train her.

It’s very important.

Answer by STFU
It’s pretty important, but bob can always do the trick when Mike can’t.

Answer by A Wild Rickachu™ Appears!
I would just practice with him. He’ll be as kinky as me in no time! 😛

Answer by Rachel
It’s important, but not because they are good/bad. I see sex as a way of expressing your love for one another and it’s amazing when two people who are in love can connect like that.

Answer by UniQue Sassy Smart♥
It is important to bring you closer. But it should not be the most pivotal part of it, otherwise it’s just a hookup with a commitment!

Answer by TunaFish
truthfully not important at all, I rather have someone I can talk to and love to be with who is impotent than some sex nut that you can not even hold a decent conversation with.

Answer by Kelly + Eternal Universal Energy
Well it’s not the most important thing but as in all aspects of a relationship you have to be compatible for it to work to the satisfaction of both. You can have the hottest person in the world as your partner but if they aren’t sexually compatible it won’t work, you’ll just be living a lie, an unfulfilled existence. My last BF was like that, he never wanted to have sex with the lights on, he turned me down all the time, he never made any effort to spice it up or please me.. I honestly never saw him fully naked in the light.. for two years I lived like that.. and in the end despite all his good qualities I was purely miserable and I felt undesirable and ugly or that there was something wrong with me. He was good looking too, and before we had sex we were really attracted to each other and we waited quite a while to take it to the next level.. when we did it was just a disappointment. I tried to hang on to everything else in spite of the poor sex life, but it just didn’t work. I felt like crap all the time because I wasn’t satisfied with our sex life and he wouldn’t talk about it.

So from that I’ve learned that while sex should not be your most important thing in a relationship, it should be as satisfying to you as everything else is in order for it to really work out. My current man makes me feel great and I love him for much more than what we have in the bedroom, but it does count that we are compatible in that area.

Answer by Crazychick™
not really important.

Answer by Sokaina
i’m a virgin, but i think sex brings a couple closer

Answer by ɐןoɔıu
It wouldn’t bother me if they were rubbish, I’d just do all the work for them >.<
Plus, if they had a lovely personality what difference would it make… zilchhhh.

: )

Answer by Wallace614
well for starters if you are in a relationship just for the sex then go to clubs and fuck the drunk chick but if you want a relationship then thats another thing thats something that cant be explain with words
and if you dump him/she for that reason then that just tell you how shallow and self center you are

Answer by lalala_blah
Sex is not the most important thing in a relationship. Sex is all about learning what you like and what your partner likes. A few bad experiences should not make a person break up with their partner, especially since there are varying sexual confidences. Confidence in the bedroom will be shattered if sex (or lack of it) was the reason for not staying in a relationship, only leading to worse experiences. Some people will be good, others won’t be so good. If we were all good at sex, we would all be married porn stars.