How do you stop loving someone?

Christina: How do you stop loving someone?
I know it can be sort of impossible to stop loving someone, but I don’t know if there are any specific ways to help. ‘Cause everything I’ve tried hasn’t worked.

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Answer by shweta
well, it is next to impossible to stop loving someone, but if u really want to do that then think worst things between both of you….. be busy in some another activities, keep urself busy…. go out with frnds, and most important thing, just get ridd this thought from ur mind that u want to stop loving him/her…… coz in this remembrance u’l think again & again abt. that person, & love improves more & more……

Answer by Alaina
Love someone else.

Answer by Inneedofassistance
I believe if there is a way in, there is always a way out. It’s best to look at WHY do you love someone? There are 6.8 billion people in the world, what has this one person done to cause your constant thought and love? Obviouosly if you feel you need to stop loving this person there is probably something that is worth forgetting. Falling out of love is not about finding other people, it’s not about drinking it away, it’s about coming to terms with yourself. I know sometimes it’s hard because they are a daily thing for you, without them your day seems off, your habits are different…and it only makes them more on your mind. What needs to happen is you being strong enough to know you could spend the rest of your life alone and still be happy. That you don’t need them to be happy. (This might involve you digging deeper into your own personal issues to find happiness with yourself.) But the point is…out of all these people in the world, can someone treat you better? Can someone make you happier? How special are those memories and can they never happen again with someone else? Remember, at one time you never knew this person and life was fine and life will continue after this person, it just takes time. Without all the info of the situation this is the best answer I can give. Life is short, don’t get hung up on the wrong person when you could meet the right one tomorrow.

Answer by duccees
Of course, love is eternal. However there are degrees with all things, so it sounds like you just need to not react to what your feeling, because it really will subside over time. Stay active, and don’t feel ashamed for your feelings, just don’t allow yourself to believe that it’s necessary to react on them all the time, balance is important.

All the best to you in this “New Year”

Answer by 虫
If you were really in love you wouldn’t be asking this question..

Answer by Lana
I’ve been in the same boat but the best thing is to make a real effort in the beginning to have no contact, throw away anything that you may have of his/hers, or that reminds you of him/her. Don’t listen to any music that makes you feel sad or that reminds you of them, don’t go anywhere that s/he is likely to hang out. Go out with your friends, tell them that you need a bit of support and company around this time. Do something that you’ve always wanted to do. Plan an overseas holiday if you can, or do an exchange for a while. Life is exciting and you need to keep active and eventually you will realise that it wasn’t meant to be.

Time heals everything.

Answer by Jiminy
when u love someoen like really really love them it doenst go away…if it wasnt real give it time