How do I speak his love language?

Cecili C: How do I speak his love language?
We’ve been married for 5 years and have a 16 month old son. We’re doing okay, but I want more out of our relationship. Lately I’ve been feeling resentment toward him. So, I want to make it right. My love language is both acts of service and quality time. My DH’s is physical touch. I know this because that is all he does-touches me, and not in ways I appreciate (groping and grabbing when it’s not appropriate)
I want to return the touching, but in what ways??!! I don’t want to initiate sex everytime I go out on a limb. Also, I know he is super fond of serious smooching and it’s not my thing-maybe once in a while, but not regularly. So, do I give in and french him everyday?? It actually turns me off-so that seems bad. well, I’ve asked more than one question now.

Answers and Views:

Answer by DI
you have to give in a bit , he has to give in a bit, bothe have to settle soemwhere in the middle.
Love is about sacrifice too.

Answer by vanessa
I would just always hold hands at any chance you get. Also when watching tv have him put his arm around you and as for the kissing dont do it all day long just sometimes.

Answer by ricky
Shave it off.

Answer by Jacob
Reread the book because it showed a difference between physical touch and sexual acts/lust. Thats not physical touch if you want a good book I recommend Becomng one by John Beam you can find it on amazon.com. It talks about the many aspects of a marriage and has workbooks you can do together.

Answer by Molly F
Do I have a twin sister who married my husband’s twin that I am not aware of? My husband and I have been in therapy for 5 years. We made a change last month to a different therapist. Our homework the second week was to read “How to Improve your Marriage without Talking about it” by Patricia Love. Both my husband and I read it, and our marriage, in the time since we have read this book, has been 100 fold better than any time during the past five years. I highly recommend it. It gives a wealth of information about how men and women react differently to the same situation, what is innate in us from birth, and what we can do to turn it all around. It’s an amazing book.

Answer by big rooster
Buy the book. the 5 love languages, then figure out which one is his.