How do i shake the “you’re like a brother to me” title?

~Gmoney~: How do i shake the “you’re like a brother to me” title?
Yesterday I got the whole “would you mind just being friends? I see you as more of a big brother to me” thing that I’m so used to hearing. I’m just genuinely a nice person and want to know how to have a relationship without being “a big brother”?

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Answer by Adam C
Well dude you really cant shake the title.. either she likes you or she doesn’t..
ive had the same problem with this girl at school. she says she just wants to be friends but she constantly is like flirting with me. maybe she’ll evntually come around for ya.. if not, she isnt the girl for you..

best of luck,
Adam

Answer by Sara007
Shaking the brotherly thing comes easy by shaking the impossibility of moving to what’s next. You should talk straight forward and be more explaining about your feelings in much open attitude.

Answer by David
Stick to it, if you like her, tell her how much. First of all make sure she likes you enough to not run away if you say this, but it does help.

If you make a point of liking her, and making sure you do everything she likes then she will eventually see you as more.

When though, depends on the girl. For me it was a few weeks perhaps a month. May be shorter or longer for you depending on how long you have known them

Answer by SoccerBabix0
Well it is going to be hard to shake off that title. But Like the first person said she might no be into you like that…she might actually see you as an older brother figure. My one friend is best friends with this guy she considers a big brother figure and she told me that she doesnt want to go out with him because 1) if say their relationship ended bady it might ruin their friendship and 2) she said it would kinda awkward dating someone whois like a brother to you. So yea i hope this helps you.