How do I get my wife to stop complaining about me kicking out our pregnant 17 year old daughter?

Heath Ledger: How do I get my wife to stop complaining about me kicking out our pregnant 17 year old daughter?
My wife keeps bothering me to let my daughter back in, but I refuse. I told her not to sleep around and since she didn’t listen she must live with the consequences.

Answers and Views:

Answer by devils_path656
asshole lol. just let her back in and all your problems are solved.

Answer by AndHeGetsTheGirl
that’s kind of heartless. the sin was in the sex. not ur daughter or her baby

Answer by Preggo With #2!
You are disgusting.

You are talking about your own flesh and blood…not to mention your own grand-flesh and blood.

Accept the situation and help your daughter.

Besides, if you don’t, your wife will never forgive you.

Answer by Cynthia
I do believe you are a troll.

But if you’re not you are a terrible father.

Answer by rollingthunder_80
she’s 17 not 18.. it’s against the law! b a man and deal with it and be a dad and help your daughter out! get her the help she needs not only for the baby but for her issues as well.. and it wouldn’t hurt if you did the same.

Answer by NannerBell Due Aug. 24th w/#1
i think her being pregnant is going to force her to live with the consequences any way, so maybe you should go a little easy on her, you may be very angry and upset or even scared, but think how she feels right now….at a time like this a girl NEEDS her family, by the way congrats grandpa….

Answer by Jeska
Your daughter needs you more than ever!!

especially her mum

your disgusting for kicking her out its terrible
your going to be a grandfather!

just think how scared your wife and you where when she first got pregnant

ur daughter will be feeling that times a thousand

Answer by г๏zเ —–x.♡.x—–
You and your wife have to sit down and have a long discussion. Seems like the two of you are not on the same page about things. If you just totally go against her will, you might just loose her. The two of you should have a talk and come to a conclusion together.

Then look at different ways on how your daughter can live with her consequences. Life is not just black and white.

Good luck!

Answer by Kiki2007
now that you have taught her a lesson now your wife is teaching you a lesson by yelling and nagging you. its your biz on why you kicked her out and that’s fine but now your wife isn’t happy. many parents kick their daughters out for getting preg.

Answer by ♥♥♥
what the fuck
if i were your wife id divore you in a second.

Answer by Abby C
You’re a horrible father I can’t believe you would kick out your own daughter. Regardless of her actions, she’s in trouble and needs your help.

I think your wife needs to divorce your ass. You doing this to your daughter is selfish and the #1 way to GUARANTEE she will be in poverty the rest of her life.

Way to go, loser.

Answer by tonya B
i know your upset that she diobeyed you but you have to think of her safety and your grand babies!!
theres too many sick people out there!!
let her back in but tell her that this is on her..make her get a job and finish school and tell her that if she doesnt do it you will not help her…trust me she’ll want the help!!!
we all mess up sometimes….i went threw the same thing and it didnt end nicely and now i dont speak to my father!!
i understand he was trying to protect me but it was too harsh of a punishment…god will do that!!!

Answer by Destiny P
Your wife won’t stop complaining. This is when your daughter would need both of you the most. She’s probably petrified, and she’s now alone. Nice parenting.

Answer by Athena
YOU ARE A MONSTER! IT IS PROBABLY YOUR FAULT FOR NOT TEACHING HER HOT TO AVOID A PREGNANCY!!!

You dont deserve anything, she is your daughter and is gonna have a baby, for God’s sake!!

Help her, and when the baby is born, ask her to get a job and support her baby.

OMG I cant believe this, I hope your wife leaves you and goes with her daughter.

You cant do that!!!! What is she gonna do??? Time travel and not get pregnant? You never made a mistake?

Is a girl and a BABY!!!!! She must be suffering a lot.

Answer by Kady
Asshole. Regardless of what happened she is your daughter. To be honest if you were this way to me I would leave you. Let her come back. She is only 17 years old for crying out loud! She needs help. No her father calling her a slut. She probably had sex for a cry of help. or to feel like a man loved her. How wrong was she );

Answer by San Jose Mommy
I admire your ability to stick to your word and follow through with punishments. Caving in doesn’t help anyone.

However…
This situation does not just involve your daughter. It involves your grand child. That child is completely innocent, yet he/she is being punished.

I suggest you let your daughter in until she delivers then kick her out or help HER FIND a place for unwed mothers to live. Check out the links below.

She needs to take responsibility for her actions. Parenting classes are a start. Most hospitals offer them. Planned Parenthood has a great cousiling program to teach her about taking responsibility. Take her there. Guide her just a little further. Then when this is done you can let her go if you still want to.

From personal experience…getting pregnant (unexpectedly) changed my life and I would not change it for anything. I suddenly had a reason to be responsible. I love my kids, hubby, and my life. Give her a chance to adjust and I bet you will see her grow into a woman before her due date.

Best of luck.

Answer by Arianna
You cant tell you daughter to not sleep around.. you can only teach her of the consequences of sleeping around and hope for the best. As a parent your supposed to support your own flesh and blood…

Its not her who needs to live with her consequences its you who needs to live with yours. You decided to have kids… so take care of them till their considered and adult. As for her taking care of her consequences wait till the baby pops out and well the rest if up to her…. weather you choose to support the baby or not that’s all on you… but weather she decides to own up to her own blessing is all on her.

Own up to your child as shes owning up to her own mess.

Answer by dylans.sarah
shes your daughter for one. and she made a mistake for two.
and third: step up and be there for her..

then your wife might not be so upset.

Answer by Ladyblue
WOW…I think you are a horrible father….but that is my opinion. Who am I to judge…i Just think you should love your children unconditionally. You can preach to her her whole life…but in the end you must let her make her own decisions and make her own mistakes. You are her father and you are supposed to support her no matter what she goes through. Your daughter is probably scared to death and needs her mom and dad more than anyone else in this world right now…how can you be so heartless….
Here is something that helped me realize the mistakes I was making with my kids….

Find the wisdom to know the difference between WHAT YOU FEEL and WHAT IS REAL!!!!!

Once you figure out what this means I think you will change your mind about the situation. You are only mad at your daughter for her actions right now. But the reality is…she is still your baby girl and she will soon bless your family with a beautiful baby…embrace Gods gift and forgive your baby girl….

Answer by beccanimf
Personally, i think your wife should have kicked YOU out, rather than you kicking your daughter out…I hope she never forgives you. What a horrible father you are. That’s your daughter…And your GRANDCHILD. You disgust me.

Answer by Yvonne B
Live ? chances are more like she and your grandchild will die.You can’t possibly love your wife if you kick out her grown baby girl. You could also be jailed for child neglect.

Answer by Ashleigh
Stop your wife complaining and give her what she wants.

Your daughter may have to live with the consequences, but now it’s time to help her. She needs your guidance as parents. Will you abandon your grandchild?

Answer by Nate da great
f*ck u

Answer by Alexis
She can deal with the consequences living in your house. she is your daughter! How could you throw her away? She is not your dog to listen to you what to do and what not. I’m 18, I have a newborn daughter and she is the best thing in my life! I never got such a rude attitude from my parents. God, I hope she finds a good friend to live with and I hope you never see your grandchild! Idiot…

Answer by Sarah
C’mon shes ur daughter.Shes got know where else to go.She’s preganant.Ur a asshole if u don’t let her in.Im a wife and mother of twins that are 17 and i have a 6yr old,a 10 yr old and a 11yr old.I wouldn’t kick em out in a situation like this.SO GROW A HEART AND LET HER IN U TWAT.SHE COULD DIE OUT THERE.THE WORLD IS A CRUEL CRUEL PLACE.!!!!!

Answer by lillymom
wow ok first of all that’s your little girl. Did it ever occur to you what kind of bad things can happen to a girl that age out on the streets? yes she was wrong for not listing to you but what kind of relationship do you really think your going to have with her when she gets older, she’ll only hate you more. Swallow your pride let her back in and work threw the problem together after all she is you daughter.

Answer by schneidmanbabe 09
U are a monster and i would kick u to the curb before i kick my own daughter to the curb…

Answer by Phoenix
Oh I think you are just trying to bait us and make us call you names, which of course you fully deserve. I will, however, keep my repose and just say this. Let the daughter back in or the wife walks out.

Answer by az_mommma
I hope this is real and I wish more parents of kids would make their kids face the consequences instead of making it easy on them!

How do they learn if they refuse to listen to your warnings, then do as they please, then you bail them out when they screw up?

They don’t!

She made HER choice, let her live with it.

Answer by mygirl17973552
whether or not you agree with her decision she is having a baby and that is a blessing. you are going to be grandparents and whether you like the idea of her having a baby now or not she needs your love and support. If this were me i may be dissapointed but what good is it going to do kicking her out? does it change the fact she’s pregnant? No. It means nothing except you are causing a damaging rift between your relationship with your daughter and possibly even your wife. This is not just your decision. By the time she has her baby she will probably be 18 and this is your grandchild. does that mean anything you? If it were me i would prefer she stay with me but i would help her get a job if she does not already have one so she can save up. and possibly let her stay with you while she saves up money to get a place and some things for her baby. i really hope you guys work things out.

Answer by sammi
this is probably a troll question but if its not she should be complaining asshole

Answer by Mallory.
your an asshole!

even though she did that, she is still your daughter and your suppose to help and support her!
at least until she is 18.