How do I get my son to stop calling me, “Dad” in public?

Dialup, Avatar, Jones!: How do I get my son to stop calling me, “Dad” in public?
I’m a single father with a 17 year old crippled son who’s stuck in a wheelchair. I don’t want him to call me “Dad” while we’re out. It’s hard enough to find women willing to date a single father, but NO woman wants to date a man who fathered a broken child. I read that one thing women look for in a man is good “stock” for breeding and he makes me look bad although his condition isn’t even my fault. It’s my fault, but not genetically.
Jenn, so crippled people aren’t ALLOWED to have sex? What kind of monster are you?

Answers and Views:

Answer by mellow
tosser

Answer by jennanderton2006
get a life. in some of your questions your son is having sex with your wife and other dumb stuff

Answer by joane
You are a disgrace as a human … a complete waste. You should be honored that he calls you, a man with such low morals and character, dad. good luck finding a woman. most of us like a man that is loving and caring not selfish and vile

Answer by Babette S
You are jacked! DAD! You are not deserving of a son! Judge and you will be judged! Love him unconditionally and be proud to be his DAD!

Answer by p.helen
*rolls eyes*
You could always just marry one of the prostitutes you spent all your son’s college money on. He’ll get scholarships for being disabled.

Once again, don’t you have anything better to do than make up ridiculous questions for Y!A?

Answer by CB
You really need some other form of entertainment for yourself….

Does your mommy know what are you doing right now? I don’t think you are old enough to be on the web without parental supervision….

Answer by sr22racing
I think you need to get off your high horse. This is your son and actually women just want a man that gives a shit about life, and well you just ruled yourself out. Grow up.

Answer by 2dee9
Shame on you!!, First what woman would want a person( cause your NOT a MAN) like you in the first place!! I feel sorry for your son. If you want a good woman she will love you & your son, regardless of his handicapp, Im not sure about your handicapp. The woman who will accept that is the total package you dork!!

Answer by Morais_p
… pica

Answer by angela l
Are you kidding me. You are such a loser! Get a life and stop
wasting our time with this retard question.

Answer by Mothertobe20
your fucked up in the head. It dont matter if your son is crippled or not. You should be happy he is even alive cause there are some children who have a condition where they cannot go out with there family or they die when their first born. Most woman dont just look for a good stock in a man. Most woman look for personality and the way they treat other woman and their children if they have any

Answer by X-Wel$h–$wAn$ea–Chik-X
im not being nasty but its sweet that you have a son and you should be ashamed of your son you should be pround no woman will likea man ashamed of theyr son and if there r then your alla bunch of tw@s! xx

Answer by Special Ethel
Nice imagination.

Answer by Fool in the Rain
“Oh you are a horrible person..grow up.. he’s your son…blah…blah..blah”

That’s the reaction you are looking for, right? There’s a difference between joking/humor and just being plain ignorant. I wouldn’t expect you to know it.

Answer by Ali Z
JERK…..you should be glad that he calls you dad….you are his father….That boy deserves a better father then you….even though he is diabled, you should still treat him with respect…..he is your flesh and blood after all

Answer by themeindzeye
Are you the same person who was asking about something you ingested yourself, which was intitally intended for your son, and worried that it would hurt you? This is a horrible thing to do. Your child loves you. I think the main problem with you not finding a woman is that you’re a horrible father. Women find someone who treats their children with love and care extremely attractive, and a lot of them would respect someone who cares for a disabled child well. Quit loading the blame on your son when it’s obviously you with the personality flaws driving people away.

Answer by reneechipman
what a shameful person you are

Answer by stocketrader24
obviously your trying to be funny, but others cant see the humor in your questions. But some women might think your a great person for taking care of your son so well. So your reasoning for not wanting him to call you dad is not a good one.
Although I dont beleive you for a second so I will do a triple fake laugh at your attempt at comedy

Answer by ))Law*Enforce((
R U for realz, It should be the other way around u BEAST!!!! He should’nt ever let u call him SON u idiot, did he ask u to bring him into the world, Ur one of those weaklink parents that are so oooooo im so the victim, yr not the victim it’s yr son u dork, dude u need some parenting classes u should be ashamed of yrself!!!

Answer by Dwight N
What the hell man!!!!!
I’d jump with joy every time my kid called me daddy or dad. What’s wrong with you!!!
you need to re evaluate your priorities dude.
First your son,
then the women

Answer by want2adopt
your not having problems because of your broken stock pal its your attitude>you dont deserve to be called dad by anybody!!!

Answer by dixiefrogs
Wow your a jerk. If a woman found out the way you acted toward you son she probably wouldn’t care what kind of “stock” you come from.

Answer by Lil Princess
Maybe you don’t get a women for what comes out of your mouth. You should be ashamed of yourself, and you are old enough to be doing this kind of retarded questions. Be serious, you are so unhuman and cruel living thing, you shouldn’t had ever been a father imagine if you were the crippled and if a woman were to love you she would accept your son just the way he is. YOU are the MEANEST person i have ever heard of. you are a big disgrace.
I feel sorry for you

Answer by jakesmom
Why don’t you get off your lazy @$ $ and go get a job.

I’m sick and tired of taxes being taken out of our paychecks that are supporting your sorry @$ $ so you can sit at home and write crazy, stupid, ignorant things.

Answer by wonderwoman
Oh ! I feel so sorry for you, Looser !!

If anyone gets stuck here it’s your son, who has a looser for a dad. Its not that you dont deserve your son, it’s that your son doesnt deserve you as a dad. Maybe he should call you ” sperm donor ” instead of dad. I dont know you, and with attitude I wouldnt want to, but there will be a day when you regret what you have done and how you have treated your son. What goes around , comes around and it hits hard. Try to see your son for the person he is not for his wheelchair. I’m sure there are lots of things you can learn from him. Peace and Love your way.

Answer by clk4cb
No woman would ever want to date you period! You’re disgusting. Tell your son (who I am assuming gets SSD) to move out–he is old enough to be emancipated-and he will probably be relieved to get the heck away from you!

Answer by heavnbound
You will never find anyone until you learn how to die to self and serve your son with a happy heart. I’m not angry with you—-I pity you. You have the opportunity to love someone unconditionally and instead you are worried about yourself and your own needs. How sad!!! You need serious counseling.

Answer by copswife262
your attitude is a total turn off- you are a slime ball, you should be proud of that fact that you are allowed to create life, You should be sterilized. You are self-centered and egotistical beyond belief. I pray for your soul. I would say more to you, but I will keep it clean. You are a sorry example of life, I pity you.

Answer by musicpanther67
I’m sure this isn’t a real question because if it is you are such an asshole that you don’t deserve women or children for that matter. I just can’t believe anyone would seriously ask this question. Where are you taking him if it’s real? You’re a disgusting peice of work.

Answer by sensible
DO YOU EVER THINK ABOUT YOUR SONS FEELINGS SOMETIMES. HE IS HUMAN TOO U KNOW. ALOT OF THINGS CAN CAUSE YOUR SON TO BE HOW HE IS AND DID YOU EVER STOP TO THINK THAT SOME WOMAN MIGHT SEE YOU AS BEEN CARING AND FALL FOR YOU BECAUSE THEY SEE THE THAT YOU ARE A CARING FATHER. U NEED HELP MENTALLY.

Answer by Jennifer W
C’MON MAN!!! Even if he did stop calling you Dad whomever you got to date you would eventually find out about your son anyways and then decide to dump you because you tried to keep it secret…any real woman wouldn’t want a man who is ashamed to have his own son call him dad in fear he won’t get a piece of tail. There are plenty of women out there that would admire the fact you are taking care of your crippled son and want to be with someone who is a genuinely a nice guy. You have to begin with actually being one. You need to change your thoughts and really start to love your son the way he deserves to be loved. Do you think he chose to be STUCK in a wheel chair? NO..And it doesn’t make you unattractive to women because of your son, only your actions would be a turnoff. It’s up to you how you want to be viewed. Deep down I hope you know your wrong. You need to apologize to your son for ever making the request in the first place, he must be hurt you would even ask that. Think about his feelings too.

Answer by jelly-bean
I don’t know why God allows some people to have children. You are ridiculous. Good stock? Broken child? What is wrong with you?????????? You are disabled also. You are an idiot!!! Tell him when he refers to you to say “hey. . . idiot”.

Answer by jbw4132
Ok the majority of your questions border on funny and truly tasteless. This one is neither. Couldn’t you have come up with something better? This one didn’t even make me laugh.

Answer by hedley_20
whatever stop putting stupid questions on here

Answer by NB
I say ghost ride the wheelchair with him in it if you start to feel embarrassed

Answer by DivaDynamite
How much time do you spend thinking up these dumb*** questions?? People like you make it easy to rack up points!

Answer by poohbear
first you must be crazy asking a question like that if the child wants to call you dad he should have thr right to you are his father, it ain’t his fault the way he is, and a women don’t care what your kids are like if the woman really wants to be with you she will like your kids no matter what shape they are in, you should be shamed by asking a question like that one get a grip and love your child for who and what he is not for chick pick up thats why they have dating services you jerk

Answer by BriannasMomma
Wow!! Thats harsh. You are so mean to him. Any REAL woman wouldnt want to be with a man who treats their kid that way.

Answer by Puresnow
On the other hand, women do appreciate a caring, compassionate man. If you treat your son respectfully a person would assume you can treat them with respect also. Women admire when men step up to the plate for their kids. It shows stregnth. Hang in there, and someone will admire you for dealing with what life has handed you and your boy.

Answer by James H
MAN I HAVE SIX KIDS AND NOT ALL OF THEM ARE PERFECT I MAY NOT LIKE THEM MUCH AT TIMES BUT ONE THING I LOVE ALL OF THEM. EACH AN EVERY DAY I BUSS MY ASS TO PROVIDE FOR THEM AND MY FAMILY THAT IS LOVE. AS FOR YOU IF A WOMAN DON’T LIKE YOUR SON FOR HIS ILLNESS SHE DON’T LIKE YOU BECAUSE HE IS A PART OF YOU.
IN THE BIBLE GOD SAID YOU SEE THE FATHER YOU SEE THE SON WHICH IS THE CHRIST.

BLOOD IS THICKER THAN WATER
REMEMBER WOMEN IS LIKE STREET CARS THEY COME AND GO.

Answer by joy
I think your a “piece of shit” dad that shouldn’t had kids in the first place. Your son is your number one top priority. He needs your help emotionally.

Answer by heaven help me
Are you really that big of a jerk that your son can’t call you dad because a woman may not go out with you?? Do you plan on keeping him a secret from any women that you date??

Answer by arl21amber
Lock him in the basement till you get married again….easy fix!!!

Answer by cutiepatootiescorpio
This question is absurd. How dare you deny your son to call you dad. If you dont want the title, looks like you shouldnt have laid down and made him in the first place. A true woman who will love you , will love you and your son, despite any problems he may have. Shame on you.

Answer by palacemistress
to quote you “he makes me look bad although his condition isn’t even my fault. It’s my fault, but not genetically.”

Ok, it’s not your fault genetically, but it’s your fault???? What did you do to your child to make him this way then??? Did you drop him on his head or shake him when he was a baby, crash the car he was riding in while you were drunk, or maybe you gave him drugs so he would fall asleep so you could shoot up and screw around with some crack wh*re you met on the streets.

You try being STUCK IN A WHEELCHAIR becuase of something your father did to you and see how you like it. You’re not a dad, you’re a sperm donor. Someone should track you down and “break” a few of your legs, starting with the shortest one in the middle. You have no right to ever breed again.

Answer by Angel
I will date you only for the chance to hang out with your son. His disability makes him more of a reason, he is special and needs extra attenion and love.. A decent kind woman, would have no trouble at all with your son, he’s already awesome !!!A s for you if we were dating trust me it would only be for the sake of your son!!!

Answer by daddys little girl
you are to hard on all women not all are bad . when the time is right ther will be someone that will take you for your son . i think a single father showes he is a stand up guy and one with a child with needs showes that he is very dedicated to someone .you should be ashamed of your self for tring to get him not to call the man who helped get him in this world and he loves dad .