How do I get my girlfriend to want more sex?

Bill Oscar: How do I get my girlfriend to want more sex?
Ok, I’ve posted several times asking ways to kill my sex drive because my girlfriend doesn’t want to have sex anymore. I’m not a sex fiend, just wanting sex 3-4 times a week but my girlfriend doesn’t want to have sex anymore. We have been together two years, in our late twenties. Aside from our sexual differences we are very happy.

She doesn’t want to have sex at all. How do I make her want more sex or how do I kill my sex drive?

Answers and Views:

Answer by Igor
You should ask her why doesn’t she want to have sex and try to solve the problem.

Answer by Daniel
Sit down and say that you need to have sex and that its not healthy with stress and things liike that but when you do have sex maby once a week do role playing it helped me i recomend police officer lol just ask for twice a week then gadually ask her for more.

Answer by MRZ YAZZI
I was just like your gf neva wanted 2 have sex till my partner made it spicy n used toys and different positions maybe shes tired of the same way u guys have sex..tease her… hold her… rub her… let her know how ur body is feeling…n just lay her down n rock her world n i bet she will want more n more trust me

Answer by Diana
3-4 times a week? PLease..maybe if you laid off her for a minute no offense lol, try talking to her about why she doesnt want have sex with her. Maybe she feels the relationship is all about sex in your mind. We women think way differently about this stuff. Take her out to a nice restaurant and ask her what she wants out of the relationship. If nothing comes from talking maybe its time to move on..

Answer by Lovely Silver
There’s a few things you could do:
1st. Try some romance. Maybe sex is just getting too routine. Take things slow, tease her, and make her ache for you before you just go for it. She might feel a bit too pressured into having sex when she’s not ready and for a few times afterwards this can be a major turn-off.
2nd. Try something new. Experiment. Have sex in a completely random place. Use toys. Have threesomes. Its not necessarily that she’s bored, its simply that she needs a little more spice every once in a while to keep the bedroom steamy.
3rd. Ask her to help you get off. Sometimes a girl just plainly doesn’t feel in the mood for sex. When this happens you can ask her if she’d mind giving you a hand job/blow job or just do something that always turns you on.
4th. Just talk to her. No one knows better what turns her on then she does. Its the simplistic thing to do but can sometimes be anti-productive if you ask her in a way that makes her feel confronted.
Good luck with your girlfriend. Hope I helped some.

Answer by LoRd VaDeR
she’s sh*t, if i was you, i’d dump her, cuz when u have arguments how u meant to make up? you have to have sex.
i’d suggest you make her on it, tell her dirty things, talk dirty, den go la senza or ann summers and buy her some sexy outfit or something, i brought my girlfriend some £5 thongs and we had loads of fun, we had sex twice a couple days after