How do I get my friend back?

Kara Knittel: How do I get my friend back?
Okay, so I’m in 6th grade with my friend and we have been really close and very good friends. And also I met her this year. So, whenever I say something that’s not that funny she will give me this dirty look, and it makes me kinda feel upset, or bad. So, yesterday, she did that in math class, so I just kinda stopped saying that many things because I don’t know what would be “considered” weird or stupid or not funny to her. So she keeps asking me “are you mad at me?”. And I say no because I don’t like it when we get in a fight. But then she brings my other two friends into this and saying to them I think shes mad at us. But I am not! I just do not know what to say around her! So then a little while later, we are in the bathroom and we are talking about how we can change things to make our friendship better. And I go, well maybe can you stop giving me mean looks when I say something that’s not really funny to you. Then she says “WELL STOP SAYING THINGS THAT ARE WRONG ABOUT ME TRUE FRIENDS DON’T SAY THAT.” So I tried to tell her that I was just trying to make our friendship stronger and she could say stuff too so that we can understand and be really good friends. When we get back into the classroom, she goes, so are we good? And I was like I don’t know yet, you never really said why. So she goes well true friends would just move on, cause maybe your not one. That made me really upset that I almost cried, (And I barely EVER cry.) So, the next day we pretty much ignored each other. Then we were watching a movie and I wrote her a nice, note saying that I don’t know what I did and your one of my best friends and I love you. She sends me back a letter saying that I don’t know if I’m your best friend. That made me really upset and I let one of my friends that are on my side, read it. She said that was really rude and mean. When I got home, I talked on the phone and I was just being calm about it, then my phone died, and I went to plug it in and she texted me and said that I wasn’t a true friend because I hung up on her? But my PHONE died. So I explain that to her and shes like YOU’RE JUST TRYING TO BE COOL! STOP STOP!! How do I get my best friend back!? P.S: Sorry that it’s so long (:

Answers and Views:

Answer by Connor Kavanaugh
show her this question on answers website and It will work 🙂

Answer by JROG
Kick her in the face.

Answer by No One
well she obviously isnt a very good friend but if you really wanna be her friend then just calmly explain to her that your phone died and your really sorry and wanna be bestfriends again. (:

Answer by Dan Huynh
shes got a problem not you

Answer by Leah
Ok i’m in seventh grade, and i’m actually really good with questions like these.

Your friend is very rude. I read your whole story, and it sounded as if you were almost begging to please her. She obviously isn’t a good friend. No friend should need a written contract saying that you’re her best friend forever yada, yada, yada. I happen to be very popular at my school. I don’t go around begging for friendships. If she wants to continue being your friend she should come to you, not the other way around. Just tell her that if she wants to be your friend, she will have to treat you better. then just apologize for whatever you did to bug her. Then shake hands or something. If she doesn’t accept your speech, then just play it cool. You are obviously too awesome for her.