How do I achieve a clitoral orgasm.?

Jessica: How do I achieve a clitoral orgasm.?
My gf has been trying to get me to have a clitoral orgasm.. I have only ever had a few in my life and just getting off in general sometimes is difficult whether someone else is doing it or I. Does anyone have any advice on how to fix this? Any advice on how to have a clitoral orgasm?

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Answer by DL
Well the key is to get enough stim, but not too much or too direct, to your clitoris. If you do it too lightly or tentatively, you may just never get that much pleasure b/c it needs to be rubbed harder. If otoh you get good feelings from it but then it just becomes too sensitive and as a result you have to stop before you’re able to climax, you should try especially at first rub it more softly or kind of indirectly like through the hood or even leave your panties on and rub it through the fabric over your crotch. So it really depends, how are you (or your partner) doing it now and what are you feeling, are you getting pleasure that just flames out too early or are you just not getting anywhere near enough stim to get off?

Also, there’s a mental aspect–if you focus too much on “oh god i want to c*m” and that’s all you can think about you may put too much pressure on yourself. Relax, enjoy the nice sensations in your groin, as the tingles build and you feel like you’re on the right track keep doing it, go with it, give into it, and eventually your body will reward you with the pleasure peak you want so much.