How do get an orgasm more quickly for girls?

Sophie: How do get an orgasm more quickly for girls?
I am a 14 year old gel. I love to masturbate with my fingers but I can’t orgasm fast enough without my parents knowing!
I am desperate!
Help!

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Answer by Steven
Try using a water based lubricant before masturbating. i.e. KY Lubricant. This is a lubricant that you can buy right off the shelf at your local pharmacy or drug store or grocery store.

The reason for using the lubricant is that it triggers your senses in your body that your vagina is expecting to have sex, once it triggers this off your vagina starts to get wet and it is like a chain reaction, your body just starts going in that direction much faster until you have a climax/orgasm.

You are at a point in your life where you are learning about your body in what turns you on and what turns you off. What will help you in this venture is ask yourself which is one of your senses is most dominant? i.e. sight, sound, touch, taste, smell. Does watching pictures or movies of sexy people or listening to sounds of people having sex or the taste of chocolate or the touch of lips on your skin turn you on? Once you have found which is your most dominant sense use that to trigger your sexual emotions, actions or thoughts and this should help you to orgasm more easily.

Many of us go through thought processes to arouse ourselves. I had a girl friend who got aroused by the sexually laced emails I would send her at work, they would get her so hot that she would call me as soon as she got off work, she would ask me; “What are doing right now?” I would tell her and she would say; “Drop what your doing and get over here, now”. So, if it wasn’t too important like washing dishes, I would drop everything and go over, as soon as I arrived she’d be standing at the door in the sexiest out fits ready for me. This bring up another point, many women love to dress up in sexy clothes; if you dress up sexy, you will feel sexy and that will arouse you even further along the way.

Another thing to consider, you may want to get a vibrator, it just may make your orgasms faster. I have known many women who use vibrators and are able to reach an orgasm much faster then using their finger.

Good Luck

Answer by Billie Roberts
U just need privacy.

Answer by Sweet Pinki
You are too young to go to adult shop and get a vibrator. But you can use electric tooth brush or even massager which can give a strong pulsation and vibration to your clitoris. This would give you a very quick orgasm.

But remember in this process you should not hurt yourself. Also ensure that you are totally relaxed.